@hyuckplaces happy birthday bitha sayaaaang!!!!!π€you deserve every good thing this world has to offer, and i hope all your dreams, big or small, slowly find their way to you :)
suka bgt baca tulisan kak fadhil π₯Ή karena tema yang diangkat sederhana tapi kontemplasi dibaliknya sangat dalam dan menyinggung hal hal sederhana yang seringkali diabaikan <3
itβs easy to consume queerness as a trope. itβs much harder to accept queer people as people. have the day you deserve, and maybe spread some kindness while youβre at it :)
the way people throw around βbotiβ as an insult says more about how society views femininity than it does about queer people. the insult only works because femininityβespecially in menβis still treated as something degrading.
thatβs why homophobia and misogyny are so deeply intertwined. itβs the same reason some people are perfectly fine reading gay aus or consuming mlm media, but suddenly get uncomfortable when queer people exist outside of fiction.