Russell

Founder of the Russell Essential Mixes
A Megamix fanatic

[Mnyamani 👑 @Zikamnyamane]

Black coffee plugged Shimza at Ibiza, Now he is pulling them Scorpion Kings, Kabza and Maphorisa 🤧 🥹

[Don Rasta™🇿🇦 @Ras_Pompe]

Her story is so touching but her focus🙄👀

[PRINCE KAYBEE @KabeloMusic]

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[Russell @DJRussellSA1]

I thank God for the gift of life
#Busyliving

[Russell @DJRussellSA1]

Brema, 🙌 it’s going down tomorrow night at IF’s Lounge! 🎶 Nothing but good vibes with my brother DJ Formal from SA on the decks. Trust me, you don’t wanna miss this one.🔥 #GoodVibesOnly #DjTempt #IFsLounge #deephouse 🥳😎 @DJTempt_

[SHIMZA @Shimza01]

They found us!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️ A global anthem!!! 🚀🚀🚀🚀

Shimza, Arco & Kasango - Fire Fire

[Russell @DJRussellSA1]

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The Backyard Picnic
#Backyardpicnic

[Thabang Phala @ThabangTalks]

Dr Bakhe Dlamini

[Y @Yfm]

#InTheRing is back for another hectic battle. 🥊 Afro House DJ, @cebo_valz returns to claim his spot as the residency DJ on #YTKO.

Let’s find out how he handles the Yires.

If you’re feeling his mix, retweet this post.

[Y @Yfm]

We love a good Afro House set on a Saturday night. Cebovalz, we wanna party!!! 🚀 💥

#InTheRing and rocking the decks, we’ve got
@Cebo_Valz.

[Russell @DJRussellSA1]

@tebe_mngomezulu I work in IT, We Support The Retail industry- Kuvala ku Out. This is the busiest time of the year

[𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑺𝒂𝒍𝒕 𝑶𝒇 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑬𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒉 @Shadaya_Knight]

MOST MEN "H8TE" THEIR WOMEN

Women got enraged over a tweet that went something like this "that phase where you start slowly hating your girlfriend is crazy", without even understanding what leads a man to feel that over his woman. And what it really means isn't that the man literally hates his woman rather he hates what has become of his woman

And many men are in such situations, they don't literally hate their women but what has become of their women. And it mainly stems from the mental abuse these women put their men through. Almost every man out there in a relationship with a woman is dealing with mental abuse

Yes a lot of men are in what can be defined as PINS AND NEEDLES relationships. A pins and needles relationship is where you're constantly on alert, being concious of what you do and say, so that you don't upset her even when she's in the wrong. A lot of men would rather avoid getting their woman upset than confronting her with the truth

This is because she has consistently gotten angry or punished him in some form e.g denies him sex or gives him the silent treatment, because he will have spoken out against her behavior, questioned her, required submission from her or simply stood up for himself

The result is the man surrenders, all he now does is simply trying to get by and not anger her. She has psychologically weakened him by constant arguing, temper tantrums and isolation techniques. At this point he hates what has become of his woman, but at the same time because he's still in love with the idea of who she used to be, he remains in that relationship, hoping she realizes the error of her ways

To cope with the situation, he finds escapism in other things, sometimes it's alcohol, yes that guy who refuses to go home at the bar, sometimes he's trying to avoid an emotionally abusive woman back home. Some sink themselves in their work, that by the time they get home they're too tired to argue, they go straight to sleep. Some will turn to side chicks, yes most women push their men into the arms of other women

There's a reason why a majority of suicides are by men and the most disturbing part is it's mainly married men or those in serious relationships. The reason why men endure such emotional abuse from their women is because they've been programmed to rationalize a woman's insults, put downs, stubbornness, moods and her bad attitude

Apparently it's normal, you always here this - if your woman isn't nagging, difficult, moody or arguing with you, she doesn't really love you. This is called RATIONALIZATION - a cope mechanism which controversial behaviors or feelings are justified and explained in a seemingly rational or logical manner to avoid the true explanation, and are made conciously tolerance or even admirable by plausible means

But my brothers I get this, keeping the peace, but not at the expense of your sanity. An emotionally abusive woman will sink a man straight into depression and lead him to an early grave

If you can't have healthy conversations, disagreements or expressing your opinions without your woman flipping out and penalizing you in some way, you're in an abusive relationship. Walk away from that woman even if you love her, love yourself more

Learn OR perish!!!

[𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑺𝒂𝒍𝒕 𝑶𝒇 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑬𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒉 @Shadaya_Knight]

KNEELING TO PROPOSE

Men, never ever find yourself on your knees begging a woman to marry you. There is nothing remotely romantic about such an act, rather it is a symbol of submitting to your woman

A man being on his knees isn't something that should be taken lightly, a man represents strength, so when a man is on his knees, it is submission to a greater strength. Sons would get on their knees to be blessed by their fathers. Men would be on their knees to honour their king. Men would be on their knees to honour their God(s) or ancestors

Now we have a generation of pussified men who go on their knees to beg women to marry them, as if the woman will be doing them a favour for getting married to them. Mind you, these are women who have already been used by other men before, gave their best years to other men, now they're just damaged, traumatized & come with baggage (kids)

This is what happens when men don't know their worth. Previous generations of men knew their worth, that's why they didn't beg women, they simply married women. Understand this, the only time a woman will go through any intense difficult in marriage is during child birth

But you as the husband will be in a forever cycle of intense difficult, as you will have to provide for & protect her. Marriage will benefit her more than you, it is an achievement for her. That's why whenever women who used to be friends & lost contact throughout the years, when they meet the first thing they ask esch other is "are you now married?"

Marriage is a such an achievement for a woman, she comes into the marriage with nothing but can leave with everything. Marriage changes her social status, the way a single woman is looked at is different from the way she's looked at as a married woman

So again, why should you as a man be on your knees begging someone so you can elevate & actually take care of them for the rest of their life. Someone you will dedicate all your blood, sweat & tears for

With this knowledge never kneel to beg a woman to marry you, by the way she doesn't marry you, you marry her. Kneeling is a sign of submission, once you kneel you have transferred power in that relationship. You have signed up for disrespect & other numerous excesses

A marriage that is started by begging, will only be sustained by begging & will end with the man begging

Learn OR perish!!!

[Russell @DJRussellSA1]

@IamEriOluwa @Shadaya_Knight Respectfully I do not agree with your opinion. I agree with the original @Shadaya_Knight Post

[Russell @DJRussellSA1]

Im very excited to be playing Good Music at this year 's Farmers Market.
The line up is insane! Get your ticket today
@sunelmusicianza

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@mainchick_n Me enjoying the beauty of this tweet

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@paballo_maseko @Kokeletsoo_ Basically it is Exclusive Prostitution🤣🤣

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@dlamininolwazi1 Sakthandi

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@Lord_4D @kyotic Is the best Dj in Mzansi