The LOL community isn't terrible.. it's the game that makes us do and say things that we don't mean. We're not rewarded much for winning but losing takes a huge toll on us. The fact that people have more control over us in some instances is something that we can't control.
My girlfriend lives over 200 miles away serving life in prison and she just killed her cell mate, 3 guards, broke out and held an Uber driver at gun point for a 4 hour drive just to come see me for an hour. IF THEY WANNA SEE YOU THEY’LL MAKE THE EFFORT