This was the realest thing chat could’ve said. I always thought because I already know, I thought that was my brain and me needing evidence was my heart
i wanna marry into a functional family... where they have cookouts, game nights, holiday dinners and birthday parties. i wanna be able to go get breakfast with my mother in-law & go shopping with his siblings. i don't want it to be just "US"... i want a family that's oriented.
On another note, these mothers wanna be independent and yell ‘I don’t need a man for shit’ while trying to raise a son. This reverse role is what my problem is. I’m on my shit making sure I have everything while these new men don’t even come with multiple pairs of pants.
My daddy has taught me to be on my shit and to not make me independent but to make sure I’m not dependent. My mother wasn’t my role model so I’m still learning to be feminine and how to be divine.
My daddy has taught me to be on my shit and to not make me independent but to make sure I’m not dependent. My mother wasn’t my role model so I’m still learning to be feminine and how to be divine.