The idea that an external force, deity, or "savior" can absorb, erase, or bear the energetic debt of an individual's actions, is a structural impossibility within the physics of the universe. This is why I do not support dogmatic religions
Just as a stone dropped into a still lake must create ripples, a choice made in the physical realm must produce a corresponding reality. There is no good or bad decision, only the energy of the intent and the manifestation that follows.
Happiness and sadness are fleeting emotions, that's why fulfillment is so important. Fulfillment comes with contentment. Being appreciative and thankful for your current circumstances.
My bluntness is not a lack of empathy; it's a surplus of clarity. When I see the cause & effect as clearly as I do, watching someone dance around the truth is like watching someone try to walk through a wall when the door is 2 inches to their left. I'm simply pointing at the door
You know a pattern has been integrated when the external circumstance arises again, but your internal response has fundamentally changed. The trigger no longer finds a hook within you.
The father isn't honored or respected in modern cultures, that's why modern young men are gay and sensitive and modern young women are overly sexual and promiscuous.