The greatest mistake men make, is to think that women do not know what they're doing.
A woman that is constantly not treating right and with respect, knows that she's not treating you right & with respect.
If you think that her pleading with you for forgiveness, means that she has come back to her senses, you're a mumu man ooo.
She has put you where she wants to place you.
When she notices that you have become too comfortable in the position where she placed you, she'll start another round of disrespect and maltreatment.
Then she'll beg for forgiveness again.
And the cycle continues.
Until she has completely overwhelmed you, and broken your masculine frame.
Sex would be when she wants it.
The type of food that must eat, is what she feels like eating.
And that's if she feels cooking.
You'd notice key decisions being made right under your nose, without any recourse to you.
Your children will hardly come to yyu to take permission to do anything.
"Mummy said that I should do it"
She would start to leave the house without even informing you of where she is going to.
And she will return whenever she pleases.
Her phones would be all passworded, and you won't have access to them.
All these, are as a result of how you allowed her to break you.
Because you decided to treat her how she wanted to be treated, and not how she ought to have treated her.
Every woman would try this with her husband.
They'll push your buttons every now and then.
If you don't stand your grounds when necessary, you'll be in water and soap will enter your eyes.
"I love her so much, I cannot do without her".
"I don't want her to leave, she has been threatening to leave, so I begged her to stay"
Your eyes go soon clear.
End.
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Wife owns Northwest Petroleum.
Husband owns Providus Bank.
This is where it gets interesting.
When the wife started Northwest Petroleum on a small scale 27 years ago, the husband supported her with capital and finance.
He was a finance professional at that time, while the wife was a chartered accountant who just resigned from an oil and gas company with the intent to start her own.
With a startup capital of only N200,000, to which the husband chipped in something, Northwest Petroleum started a business and was born.
The company carried out diesel supplies in 200-liter drums to homes.
She started out supplying diesel to her church & homes in her neighborhood.
Her clientele grew to include hotels & factories.
The Business Expanded and She Became a Bulk Buyer, Leasing Petrol Stations and Distributing Other Refined Petroleum Products,
Two and a half decades later, the company now handles international oil trading and services deals worth millions of dollars and has multiple investments in midstream and upstream sectors of the Nigerian oil and gas industry.
Northwest Petroleum & Gas Company Ltd. owns over a 100 million liter storage capacity in Nigeria.
Northwest Petroleum operates two ultra-modern mega petroleum products storage terminals with a combined capacity of 96.8 million liters, certified and licensed by the Department of Petroleum Resources (DPR), and an ultra-modern berthing facility with international state-of-the-art firefighting and safety equipment, adjudged one of the best in Nigeria and sited in the Calabar Free Trade Zone, Cross River State.
Northwest Petroleum & Gas Company Limited also owns and operates several unique 24- and 26-nozzle ultra-modern mega filling stations across the country.
Now possessing vast experience in the importation, supply, distribution, and storage of petroleum products, Northwest Petroleum is approved by the NNPC for the allocation and export of Nigerian crude oil and is actively involved in the official export.
North West has grown and is now a business that does millions of dollars in revenue.
The husband, who was running a mortgage bank, United Mortgage Bank, wanted to apply for a banking license.
He tapped on the wife, who is now a billionaire in naira, to invest, and as you know, one good turn deserves another.
The wife invested in what is known as Providus Bank today, of which her husband is the pioneer CEO.
Not only did she invest, but her company, Northwest Petroleum, is the biggest shareholder of the bank, with over 34% shareholding.
Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you Nigeria’s biggest power couple.
Mr. Walter and Mrs. Winifred Akpani
A reminder that as a couple, you don’t need to put out the light of your partner for you to shine.
In the picture are the power couple flanked by Mr. Ijewere, former president of ICAN, who is in the middle.
Alfa Ibiyeomie said the forbidden fruit that Adam ate is the tithe. He said eating the tithe is the reason God banished Adam and Eve from the Garden of Eden.
And no, this is not a joke at all.
This is actually a true statement.
Seeing this post prompted me to share a story. Not fiction
When my elder sister gave birth to her first child, her husband would usually carry the baby during his morning prayers. It started off as, “Let me help my wife carry the baby since she couldn’t sleep last night,” and soon became a routine.
Every day, by 4 a.m., as he prepared for his daily morning prayers, the baby would wake up crying. He would carry her on his chest like in this image and pray with her for the two hours he usually spends in prayer. The beautiful thing about this routine was that once he carried her and she rested on his chest, she stopped crying. She would remain awake but peaceful throughout the entire prayer session.
This is sad but weird
A lady paid a car dealer 90million naira to get a car for her
He used the money to pay his outstanding debts, open a gold shop for his wife and committed suicide