i cant deal w/ people who aren’t solution oriented bc they will ask u for advice knowing they enjoy complaining and being in distress. which is fine if thats ur vibe but just say that
When I vent I tell both sides I never just tell my side cuz I always wanna know if I’m tripping or not. Im not venting for you to be on my side, I’m venting for another point of view
i HATE being lied too. You don’t wanna see me? Lmk I’ll understand. You don’t wanna be friends anymore? Cool, your secrets are safe with me. You’re seeing somebody else? As long as your happy babe. JUST LET ME FUCKING KNOW. DONT HAVE TO COME UP WITH EXCUSES.