Being in your 30s is realizing you can actually just... leave. The relationship. The friendship. The room. The situation. You donโt need to stay anywhere that doesnโt feel good anymore.
Ask God to restore your appetite for life. Your ideas. Your energy. Your curiosity. Your confidence. Your hope for the future. Sometimes you donโt need a completely new life. You need to reconnect with the parts of yourself you stopped nurturing.
Whatever you do, pray for the ability to see your own sins, your own hypocrisy, and your own shortcomings. Never get so carried away pointing fingers that you forget you, too, fall short.
Maturing is realizing they never burned witches. They burned midwives, healers, herbalists, and knowledgeable women.
Women who understood medicine, nature, and their own autonomy. Women whose knowledge threatened patriarchal control. The "witch hunts" were never about magic, they were about silencing women who couldn't be controlled.
If you were smart you would get w a high priestess and put her UP. Give her the softest life possible so she can sit back && download the next steps for yalls empire.
I donโt know who needs to hear this, but GET UP โผ๏ธ Ask God to breathe His Spirit back into you. Youโve been lying dormant for far too long. Ask Him to restore your creativity, your purpose, your joy, your love, your health, and your sound mind. Youโve slept long enough in depression, anxiety, overthinking, bitterness, loneliness, grief, brokenness, financial stress, abandonment wounds, relationship trauma, and destructive habits.๏ฟผ
Today is the LAST day. GET UP ๐ฃ๏ธ๐๐ฝ Get up for your future self. Get up for your kids. Get up for the dreams God placed inside you. Get up and take your life back. ๐ซถ๐ฝ๏ฟผ
Iโve learned to stay away from people who bring out the mean, reactive or chaotic side of me. Not because Iโm incapable of handling them, but because I know that version of me isnโt who I want to be. If a connection constantly pulls me away from my peace and brings out a side of myself I donโt recognise, Iโd rather walk away. Protecting your peace means protecting the person youโre becoming.
the hottest form of dominance is honestly just competence. knowing where weโre going. making the reservation. ordering when i canโt decide. moving me to the inside of the sidewalk. โcome with me.โ โeat.โ โsleep.โ โiโll sort it.โ yeahโฆ iโm listening.