Like after rain beat the hell out of my mummy on our journey from Nsukka to Ihiala (she even fell sick) so that I can take my Nursing exam. The numerous times she risked her life on the dangerous roads of Nsukka to Mkar, Gboko Benue state so I can take my nursing exams. I will ask a man permission before I can give her money?
As in the Parents who made sure I never worked a day in my life throughout my University? As in my parents who paid for all 3 of my professional exams and licenses? The ones who made sure I never repeated a request twice in my life?
As in my parents who made sure I never squatted with anyone in my life? As in my mother who makes sure that even till this day well into my adulthood, I HAVE NEVER PAID ANYTHING CALLED RENT (I don’t even know what it feels like to stress over rent)
I Will ask a man for permission to send them money? NEVER!!!
in the span of 2 days we’ve seen at least 5 cases (that made it to the media) of rape & femicide in nigeria, DO NOT SUGARCOAT IT, NIGERIAN MALES ARE KILLING & RAPING NIGERIAN WOMEN FOR FUN !!!!
Just remembered my final year writing project. This woman cancelled and cancelled I printed and printed until I got fed up. She asked me to reprint again I swear I said no. She said do I want a D as grade I told her give me the D. Naso I take comot there😅
I find it endlessly amusing when men expect a level of domestic labour from me that I don't even do for myself. If I haven't built my own life around cooking every single day, what exactly makes you think you'll be the exception?
All this parents brutality to their children stories on the TL is making me rethinking, how many of those kids that died, when we were growing up, of high temperature at night really died of high temperature. Omo!😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Tbh, I don't know what would be my reaction when I read the message (maybe surprise or laugh) but definitely not "You dare not".
For all I know, they could call in sick and I wouldn't have said "You dare not".
I guess it's because they said it exactly how it is.
i hate it when older people ask me, “so you cannot greet?”
Bro, i’m tired! The last thing on my mind is to greet you. You too greet me first since you fancy greetings so much or leave my front please
Most of us who didn’t “go astray” or stayed the course of being a “good child” did so because of our own convictions, not because we were beaten into submission or lived in fear. Yes, upbringing plays a role, but at some point, our own values and choices took over. Who go spoil, go spoil.
“I won’t hit my spouse/lover” - yaaayyyyyyy
“I won’t hit my child” - “don’t bring your gentle parenting kids around me”, “mouth is good fc”, “you don’t even have children yet”.
E sa ma rora! And you people swore you turned out ok, I don’t think so 😂
Saying things like “let me call my mum and tell her I love her” in response to people talking about the abuse they experienced from their parents is so stupid btw.
Good for you that your mum didn’t abuse you, I guess we should hand you a trophy.
We just found out my neighbor who we thought has been missing since he told us he’s traveling for holiday to Togo is in jail for calling a woman Ashewo.
Apparently while on vacation at the hotel he was staying,an argument broke out between him and a lady and like how most Nigerian men call women “Ashewo” when they’ve no meaningful thing to say to her, this my neighbor called the lady “Ashewo” and the authority was called on him.
Calling a woman Ashewo is a criminal offense in TOGO if you can’t prove it that she’s an Ashewo and they treat all punishments the same in Togo and he was thrown into jail, he’s supposed to have resumed work and he’s serving a jail term in Togo.
That serves him right anyways