I love a man who wants to make my life easier. A man who wants me to call him for every problem. A man who wants to see me happy and at my best no matter what. That’s the kind of man who can get whatever from me.
They shooting the messenger, but she ain’t wrong. Dating and sex were heavily demonized in a lot of our homes. We were told to stay away from boys and focus on school. The problem is that relationships are a skill set too and many Black women were prepared for careers but left to figure out dating, boundaries, and healthy partnership on our own.