May every favour and opportunity I am entitled to this week not pass me by.
May I be remembered in rooms where my name can change my life for good.
May the right people think of me at the right time.
May every call I have been waiting for come.
Every door meant for me, may it open without unnecessary delay.
May I not be too distracted to recognise an opportunity when it arrives.
May my work speak for me in places I have never entered.
May those assigned to help my light shine find me.
May I meet people who genuinely want to see me win.
This week, I will not miss what is mine.
And because you genuinely wish me well, may you not miss what is yours either.
I just completed an important phase in my recovery journey,
Had to take an injection by myself everyday for 3 months (p.s, my surgeon taught me how to) and it came with side effects.. vomiting, rashes, body weakness.
Thanks to everybody who’s supporting me so far,God bless you.
By breadcrumbing
Instead of 200k at once, make it 20k and spread it across months.
Instead of getting her that iPhone 18 that you can comfortably buy, get her a 14PM
Instead of opening a business, give her 20k every now and then while reminding her to get a job
Instead of calling her today, and calling again tomorrow, call today and don't call again until she calls
If she called to ask for money, that does not qualify as a call.
Instead of asking her to come over this weekend, and then again next weekend, ask her this week, and don't ask again until she invites herself
The point is
1. whenever you think of giving her something that costs x, divide x in half, then give her that half
Even/especially if you can comfortably afford x.
2. Give her room to reciprocate the bare minimum things that she can reciprocate. That way, it is much easier to gauge her commitment to you.
And the easiest example here is calls. If you're calling more than her, whilst spending on her, what exactly is she doing for you then.
She may not be able to spend much money on you so the asymmetry there is expected.
But anything else that she can do for you to balance what you do for her, you have to take a step back and allow her do it.
That is where calls and initiating visits come in.
She should be calling you more than you call her. That is one of the easiest ways to know when she starts cheating on you - because the calls will stop.
But if you're the one doing most of the calling while also doing all of the spending, then you're setting yourself up.
Your financial investment in her must be reciprocated by investments from her in other areas.
And no; sex is not an investment because it is an infinite resource she gives to everybody
In some families, everyone sells what they have to support one person. Even the siblings' education are sacrificed. Those siblings would go look for any type of work to do - even the work that comes with humiliation, - and still send you money to support you.
If people are crying about black tax, you better keep quiet. You're a product of black tax yourself. Always know the family you come from. Don't let privileged people tell you about black tax.
People will tell you that "everybody will be alright even if you don't help." Na lie ooo. You would not have been alright if they didn't sacrifice for you. Ensure the people that looked after you are well looked after. Ensure your family can feed.
Some of you blew up as superstars in whatever field you delved into. You're the light in your family. Accept your reality. Money eaten alone is not sweet.
CONGRATULATIONS TO ME. 🖤🥂
A Mercedes-Benz GLE 53 AMG 2025.
First in the industry. 👑
If you told me a few years ago that I’d be here today, I probably wouldn’t have believed you.
I’m just grateful that I didn’t give up on myself.
Thank you, God. 🙏❤️
That idiot said you should spend on her so much to the point where other Men won’t be able to reach her
If I ever see that guy for real life, I go swear for am on the spot.
Girls between the ages of 14-18 are busy fucking fucking boys older than them and collecting ice cream and shawarma and pizza and the likes
Meanwhile, boys between that same age range are still busy playing mocking post set everyday. People wey go get injury, pour sand inside continue Dey play ball till them go house go bathe come begin feel the actual pain 😂😂😂
Girls between 18-23 are busy enjoying beautiful lives and experiences, courtesy older men. Some are even flying around the country and the world cos men are spoiling them due to their youth
Boys between the same age are clueless about what they wanna do with their lives. Some are dressing like mentally unstable people. Most boys between that age are basically just there, still figuring out what they wanna do with their lives
Girls between the ages of 23-26/27 are at the absolute peak of their lives, very small amount of them are actually self aware.
Meanwhile the boys on the other hand are finally getting a wind of what life truly is and are setting up their lives to finally start getting a thing or two.
By the time the same girls hit 28+, age and reality have set in. For most, night don come. Men no longer come across them like before. Benefits have reduced drastically.
For the guys, that’s when most of them start actually living their lives. Money don start dey touch their hands
But somehow, the same women that enjoyed all the benefits from older men when they were younger are now telling the same boys that are of the same age as them to leave younger girls and date/marry/spoil them 😂😂😂😂😂
Una dey mad o!!!
So, what’s good for the goose don turn poison for the gander???
“Women supporting women” but you no want make young girls too chop wetin you chop when you dey younger???
Egbe eligwe ga agbugbu unu nile 🙏
If you like, no use now wey you young find man keep, continue fooling around! By the time you hit 30 and unmarried, you go enter Shiloh and start dey dress like your miracle.
As for me and my friends, we go fuck una tire!
Some of the pastors una go meet for prayers go collect their own share too cos una kuku no get sense
If ogun wan come take una, just foolishly become single mother, ajeh na that time you go understand the real meaning of community dog cos na wetin you go actually become. Nobody go keep you for house but na everybody go dey feed you.