Yall would rather CODDLE a racist than open your arms to a Black person who’s just been called slurs, and ignored, and dismissed and fucked over by crowds of people. I know where your values lie, don’t bother sounding dumb by trying to explain.
If you had a "racist phase" respectfully go fuck yourself. It's one thing to have unconscious biases that might stem from how systematic racism is, but straight up viewing another race as sub human, throwing slurs around, and having entire fucking phase revolve around that?