Nothing will destroy a relationship faster than watching your partner show up for other people in a way they don't show up for you. They have the ability, just not for you ๐
the US: we are considering adding women to the draft
me: call me old fashioned but yes, i was raised to serve my husband. cook for him. do the laundry. wake up at the crack of dawn to make him breakfast, prepare his clothes and clean the house.