As a man, you need to ensure you get yourself a good woman as a wife. This is why I call them the madam.
Yes, you are the head, but she is the one that will train those children for you. The values she drops in them are what they will most likely grow with.
Guess what? A good woman will train your children according to your steps in your absence. If God blesses you in this life, you will definitely be absent from home most times. This is where your good wife will play her role to raise them well for you.
Therefore, as a man, when you are searching for a wife, remember looks are good, but they are not the final deciding factors for a wife.
Africa is full of surpsises
Ugandan police arrested a man for witchcraft, took him to court, and he responded by inviting bees to the court.
Everyone was attacked by the bees. He didn’t get a single sting.
Interesting to see a man running around with a fire 🔥 extinguisher.
Earth is hard , best such guys are left in peace.
One day, I came to deliver a message when I saw them partying and drinking, so I stayed back for some drinks. They made jokes, we all laughed, and they offered me brownies. I had always heard about them but never tasted one before, so I just munched it.
One of them asked me to take it easy, but I told her, “I’m a big boy, I can handle myself.” 😭
That’s when it all began.
The one that liked me the most stood up and started doing some teasing dance. She asked if I could handle her. I laughed and told her, “You be small matter na.”
PRINCIPLE 40
Becoming the System
…In the process of building, the builder is also built
The clash of cultures that emerges in the effort to build systems is one of humanity’s oldest struggles. It is a tangle of race, tribe, region, and geography—of belief systems and social cycles, of individuality shaped by environment and experience. It is the formation of truth, of character, of habit. It is the story of the human attempt to create meaning amid chaos—the suffering, the striving, the pain of enterprise, and the relentless challenge of building from nothing, often among those who have known only nothingness. It is, indeed, a difficult pilgrimage.
To build from nothing is a calling we all encounter in some form. The task of building enterprises in developing economies is not merely economic—it is existential. It demands not only labour and intellect but also vision transcribed into permanence, written in the book of purpose. It is easy, perhaps, to write the vision, to dramatise it with diagrams and flowcharts, to codify it into Standard Operating Procedures and Manuals. It is even easier to assemble the people. Yet, the true work lies beyond the scripts—it is in cultivating adaptation, in communicating vision and objectives in ways that outlive words. For even when the plan is clear, the path is often obscure; the ease of design becomes the difficulty of discipline.
Here, in this crucible of growth, we find ourselves crawling, walking, and running all at once. We must learn every stage of progress simultaneously—to crawl towards understanding, to walk in practice, and to run with endurance. This is the rhythm of enterprises in developing worlds: a symphony of struggle and creation, where every forward step is both survival and revelation.PSJ