Recently, a number of colleagues and friends have expressed concern and worry about how Ai will impact their careers, their future and their childrenās. Expressing a common narrative and a question that asks:
Did We Wish for Our Own Undoing?
AI Didnāt Steal Our Purpose, Routine Did
I grew up worshipping technology.
We flipped through magazines that promised flying cars and thinking machines, and we asked the same question every kid asked: Will we live to see it?
We did.
Every week, a new breakthrough: models that teach themselves, robots that donāt tire, systems that āknowā before we decide. Each step forward feels like a step into fog, and in that fog I hear a quiet, unsettling thought:
What if what we wished for is the thing that unmoors us?
The old world had a rhythm. Not perfect, never perfect, but predictable enough to plan a life, to raise children with a map that felt like it would still matter in ten years. Today, the map redraws itself overnight. Careers compress into skill sprints. Beliefs bend under headlines. Our kidsā questions outpace our answers.
Itās easy, so easy to confuse speed with progress, novelty with meaning, optimization with wisdom. To mistake automation for advancement and convenience for care. And when the ground keeps moving, faith in institutions, in narratives, sometimes in ourselves can start to thin.
But hereās a different reading of the moment:
Technology didnāt erase purpose; it exposed the parts of our purpose we outsourced to routine.
When the predictable path disappears, what remains is the practice of being human, values we carry into any era:
ā¢Dignity over efficiency. If a process saves time but empties people, it isnāt an upgrade.
ā¢Discernment over dopamine. Not every ānewā deserves our attention; not every āfastā earns our trust.
ā¢Craft over churn. Depth is a competitive edge, especially when breadth is cheap.
ā¢Stewardship over spectacle. Build what your children will thank you for, not what your peers will applaud.
ā¢Courage over certainty. Teach kids to navigate ambiguity, not to hide from it.
Yes, the future is uncertain. But so was every meaningful chapter humanity has ever written. What we lost in predictability, we can regain in intention. What automation accelerates, character must govern.
So hereās my stance as a technologist, a parent, and a citizen:
Use machines to extend our capacity, never to excuse our responsibility.
Teach our children to master tools, and refuse to be mastered by trends.
Judge progress by the human beings it helps us become.
We didnāt wish for our undoing.
We wished for the chance to build, wisely, at a scale our grandparents could only imagine.
And that chance is still ours.
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