The real gold diggers are men who expect you to give them your body, take care of them, clean the house, wash their clothes, give birth to their children, manage their emotions, AND on top of that go to work, & contribute 50/50 to the expenses.
I find it interesting how people always know when you’re about to leave .. and then they cling onto you a little tighter and try to give you the things they never gave to you when you were locked in with them. Friends, partners, jobs.. it always seems that people are willing to treat you less than you deserve, until the moment you realise you deserve more…
Greatest lesson I've learned this year is you can't have one foot in your old life and one foot in your new life and expect change. You have to fully commit to the new life.
Unfortunately, people are not always going to be brave enough to tell you they're no longer vibing with you. Sometimes, you just have to read the energies, and leave the table. Take some initiative. Let go of the guilt of letting go. Have the courage to walk alone.
Get a degree and make a career before getting married because there is no guarantee of a healthy spouse and healthy marriage but your degree and career will get you an independent life.