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nothing to see here

[Sloppy Toppy @Danma__]

Lol dem no dey tell person.

[K. @Kumms_]

This Kitchener is so dead. Nothing to do here. I’m tired.

[J🫶🏻 @princessspeony]

everyone on this app posting mournfully about the end of summer meanwhile it’s 95 degrees in chicago

[Sloppy Toppy @Danma__]

@oprahmo Sameee 😭😭

[Sloppy Toppy @Danma__]

Since I’ve been here, people have randomly fist bumped/high fived me in the streets…smiled at me (genuinely) + the complimentss😌
Yeah it’s definitely a city that’ll be easy to make friends/ find community in.

[Sloppy Toppy @Danma__]

They’re so complimentary too! 💙

[Sloppy Toppy @Danma__]

People in Chicago are actually really chill & nice!

[Sloppy Toppy @Danma__]

Not the Canadian type of niceness.

[Madeleine @JournoMaddie]

Slightly tangential but I believe a fair amount of incidents where black people think they’ve been the victims of racism are them entering spaces where there are specific rules which they do not understand and therefore unknowingly break.

Spectators are expected to be quiet at tennis matches. Someone who hasn’t grown up attending or watching such events wouldn’t know this. I’ve definitely broken unspoken rules before when entering new spaces. It’s a huge part of class dynamics in Britain.

But black people, and to some extent other minority groups, are taught to perceive criticisms of their behaviour as racism. The reality is that different spaces have different expectations of behaviour and you can’t act the same way everywhere. No group appreciates it when you enter their space and don’t conform to their norms.

[Apụnanwụ✨ @Bubee_O]

Meanwhile my hot take about this is that you must do everything possible within your power to ensure your own happiness. Any other thing from any other person is jara.

Since I clocked this, I can’t remember the last time I’ve been sad on my birthday.

[LG @Loueezus]

That man that just posted a curated instagram dump to say goodbye to the summer is NOT gonna provide for you

[Sloppy Toppy @Danma__]

I did not anticipate this kind of heat here… it’s soo hot 🥵

[Sloppy Toppy @Danma__]

Someone that has self esteem issues. Not just friends o, besties.

[. @ArrayofShine]

Yasmine is crazy…remain friends with Jordan for WHAT, exactly? 😒 #LoveIsBlindUK

[Sloppy Toppy @Danma__]

…and It’s a good feeling when the city knows your naaameee

[Sloppy Toppy @Danma__]

I pray I don’t leave this city with neck pain considering how much I’ve been looking up to take in the architecture 😅

[Sloppy Toppy @Danma__]

@SHANJOBE Every other day a different one 🤧

[Sloppy Toppy @Danma__]

Just with a lot of body aches but yeah.

[Aisha 🇵🇸🇸🇩 @jewojallow]

The rumours are true, you really do get finer in your 30s

[Summer @kingvickii]

These hosts are not nosy enough or getting to the crux of things 😭 Like, do Joseph & Fran have their own place now? How are Ciara & Ajay managing finances? Did she buy her own flight to Australia or did he? I need DETAILS.
#LoveIsBlindUK

[reni, the resource | finance & travel @xoreniii]

Atlanta’s own will always be different 😂

[Sloppy Toppy @Danma__]

@tammydimieari I couldn’t get past season 1

[Sloppy Toppy @Danma__]

I don’t know how you people are watching beauty in black.