Major cheat code for life: Be fully where your feet are. When you're at work, work. When you're with family, be with family. When you're resting, rest. Most people are physically present and mentally everywhere else.
There is no way to bypass the uncomfortable parts of anything you do that is worthwhile. It comes with growing pains, missteps, failures, setbacks and all that. You have to expand your capacity to cope healthily with discomfort if you want to accomplish anything in this life.
Life rarely changes in a positive way without an increase in responsibility.
That can mean taking ownership of your health or committing to a relationship or starting a business.
Whatever it is, if you want the trajectory to change, the amount of responsibility usually has to change.
People refuse to go through the process anymore, that's why so many people never make it.
You have to be okay with starting something and the process taking years to finish.
To get what you want out of life you have to work extremely hard starting out.
At some point you have to figure out which levers to pull to give you even more results with less work.
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the only bare minimum with humans is everyone should be respecting and treating other with some decency. other than that, quite literally everything else requires work and effort.
I also don’t believe you have to actively forgive people if you cannot find it in yourself to do so. as long as you don’t dwell on the negative memory and release it.
One of your biggest advantages is being able to accept the truth, and not making excuses for it
Alot of people run from the truth, and there is a lot of time, money, and energy required to do that
If you don't run from it, all that time, money, and energy can be used for you
humans are hilarious in that they’ll have negative experiences due to their own decisions and blame it on every factor except choice and how they carry themselves. you’re always getting what you deserve currently.
people think it’s mindset and perspective that causes shifts and it is but not at first. it’s being *dead honest* with yourself. nothing changes until that discomfort is met before anything else.