My Papa in the LORD will be 85 years old tomorrow🥹
There are so many things to be grateful for in the life of Pastor Kumuyi.
Thank YOU JESUS for Your servant🤲
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Meet Segun.
Salary: ₦200k/month.
Lives in Ikorodu.
Works in Lekki.
One of the bosses at his office is getting married in Benin.
Segun thinks:
“If I don’t go, it will look somehow.”
So he prepares.
Aso-ebi: ₦70k
Shoes: ₦30k
Transport: ₦60k
Hotel: ₦30k
Total: ₦190k
For someone earning ₦200k.
He comes back from the wedding with:
• souvenirs
• pictures,
• zero money
Now he has to borrow from Opay just to survive the month.
Next month he can’t repay.
Then the loan app starts calling:
his boss
his siblings
his contacts
All because Segun didn’t know how to say “No.”
Some financial problems are not caused by low income.
They are caused by expensive social pressure.
Live below your income.
Save.
Invest.
Build skills.
Not every invitation deserves your money.
Here are 6 hard truths I’ve come to learn about long term love
1)Long term love gets boring. At some point the fireworks stop and that initial infatuation and excitement goes away. And that’s good. Because that initial chemical rush was never stability. It was adrenaline and adrenaline forever leads to burnout. Real love feels calm. Quiet mornings, same couch, familiar jokes.
And that’s not “losing the spark”. That’s building a nervous system that feels safe and trusted.
2) You will outgrow each other. Then you’ll catch up. And then you’ll repeat the same cycle again and again. Because th truth is you’re not going to grow at the same pace. One of you will always level up first. Whether it’s emotionally, spiritually or mentally. For a while it’s going to feel uneven like they are pulling you or you’re pulling them.
Strong couple don’t panic when this happens. They wait and resync again and again.
3) Your partner will trigger your deepest wounds. They will hit the exact spot where your childhood never healed. And your nervous system is going to scream. But this is not always a bad thing. It’s good to visit those triggers again Shane again untill that wound heals properly and stops being an infected wound covered and rotting.
Because before love can heal, it has to expose.
4) Attraction is a practice and not a feeling. Because nobody stays “hot” the same way forever. Bodies change, mindset changes, and life generally changes you. If you rely only on raw chemistry, you could get into trouble.
Long term attraction has much more to do with attention. Really looking at your partner and noticing them and choosing them every single day.
Like loving your partner’s laugh lines as they age. It’s using your attention to update your chemistry.