Instead of becoming exhausted and desperate trying for the other to see your worth, why not try the other way around? Make the other feel valuable THANKS TO YOU.
Who doesn't love feeling worthy?
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You can turn your weaknesses into strengths.
Into unique selling points making you more distinguishable from other people and, therefore, making you appear more valuable for those around you.
Giving them a more unique experience.
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What are the potential gains if I do X?
What are the potential losses if I do X?
What are the potential losses if I don't do X?
Do the potential gains outweigh the potential losses? If so, perform action.
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Do y’all have any tips for my (I guess?) social anxiety?
I guess it's really a matter of repeated exposure to these stimuli.
Now, there are some nice guidelines that you can work toward while sort of applying "exposure therapy" on yourself...
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Anyone knows how to stop being a gigantic pushover?
Try to imagine that a good friend of yours is standing exactly where you are and experiencing the same things. What would you do for him / her in order to not disappoint your good friend?
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