Normalize saying, “this isn’t the kind of love I want for the rest of my life,” and walking away. You are someone’s dream, so stop settling for a love that makes you question your worth.
⠀who’s the real you .ᐣ the person who did something awful, or the one who’s horrified by the awful thing you did .ᐣ is one part of you allowed to forgive the other .ᐣ
the neurodivergent obsession with trying to figure out why someone did what they did. replaying it. analyzing it. asking your friends. asking your therapist. asking your friends again. because your brain literally cannot accept that some people are just cruel for no reason.