@Rich_Cooper For all you guys in the comments saying "she's this", "she's that", every woman is like this, she's just one of the ones who manages to be honest about it. If you absolutely must show weakness at some point of your life, never do it in front of your wife and kids.
@m3po22@GaiuzGermanicuz@PFlat2@ptviperz You're interpreting the emotional side of what he said rather than the logical side
What he said is factually correct, doesn't really matter what words he chose to express it, if you look at it, it even saves times explaining complicated shit, leave that to the psychologists lol
@PFlat2@m3po22@ptviperz And you believe everything people say?
Women also say "he's too nice" instead of "he doesn't make my panties wet"; so there's that, they do it to avoid embarassment or to avoid making said guy angry, women don't like socially dangerous or uncomfortable situations
@CaudilloNuclear I've experienced this recently, where you basically get pressured into commitment bit by bit
I feel like there's no real solution to it, doesn't matter if I walk away, the next relationship will basically be the same, where you get pulled in until you get "locked down"
Nope. Women control BOTH access to commitment and sex.
- They can leave at any time
- If she doesnโt have sex with you, thereโs no real relationship
- Entering another relationship is 1000x easier for her than for you (doesnโt mean better)
- They set the terms of any relationship (Briffault's Law)
As a man you control nothing. You either opt in or opt out when she presents you the opportunity for whatever she wants.
HOWEVER
That means women are 99.9999% of the time single by choice and their relationship choices or lack thereof are totally on them, no matter how much they whine about men not โmeasuring upโ.
Relationships are her problem. You have better things to worry about. Focus on being awesome. Your devotion to women is worthless anyway.
@CaudilloNuclear@iamzeroalpha Because the goal was achieved, to have children
Maybe because subconciously, there's a switch that says "work here is done, move on to the next phase"
@chrispress5@bkseatpassenger@grok It was already "checkmate" before, people believe whatever they want to believe. No amount of evidence can convince the biggest skeptics. I've stop thinking about it as a collective, it doesn't really matter what other people believe, it matters what I believe.
@MyWayIsBack@southevropa Excepto se tiveres que trabalhar aseguir, pelo menos para mim, nรฃo gosto de me sentir anestesiado na altura de fazer esforรงo mental