When an adult child stands up to a narcissistic parent, they don't just lose peace - they often lose their entire family. Because truth is expensive in families built on lies.
Narcissistic parents manufacture sibling rivalry between the golden child and the scapegoat. They turn siblings into enemies by feeding the golden child entitlement and the scapegoat shame. When the scapegoat asks for fairness, they’re labeled as jealous.
As soon as the covert narcissist suspects someone can see them for who they really are, that person will be viewed as the “bad guy“ and a smear campaign against them will begin. The narcissist wants everyone else to feel as threatened by this individual as much as the narcissist feels. They will be labeled “crazy”, dishonest, abusive; anything negative the narcissist thinks they can paint them out to be.
If you want to figure out who the real narcissist is and who the actual victim is. Look at who stands alone. The victim is almost always hated for carrying it on their own. While the narcissist is surrounded by groups, enablers and people who laugh along to keep it going
Older Patriots fans waking up today knowing all they had to do was record the Seahawks walk thru practice and memorize the plays, steal all their signals. Pay a few refs off and deflate all the balls, and that Super Bowl would have been in the bag
Before my grandpa died, he told me that good men with good hearts die between 30-45, they just don't get buried until they are 80.
The older I get, the more that makes sense.
I have said many times that COVID was the best thing to happen to humanity for one reason: we now know who everyone is. And we have receipts.
(I didn't make this video, thanks to whoever did)