No second date in a year. That was him when he came to me.
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Two texts from her & my client's thinking about proposing
He sent me this after her birthday, about 8 or 9 months in.
When he came to me, he hadn't had a second date in a year. He barely had matches he actually liked
Look at what she's doing in those texts:
-thanking him for something small
-telling him how she felt, without being asked
-thinking about his sleep schedule (girlfriend behaviour)
-picking the next restaurant herself
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That last one is the one I look for, because planning the next date is real effort
When she's starting the next plan, the effort's mutual & you can stop strategising
When you're the only one ever making plans, that's your answer too
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Dating can be a system. Half of it's a performance anyway, on both sides
A lot of guys are still stuck chasing the Chad fantasy. Some just want to hook up, & that's their call
But honestly, this is the stuff that actually gets me. Raw, heartfelt, she's all in too. It's a beautiful thing
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Some guys will say 8 months is too soon. Everyone moves at their own pace
There's a system to dating. There's no system for knowing when she's the one
I told him she's a keeper
Chad would be offended. I'm South Asian with a dad bod
Apparently my results only work because I must be one
Never had a six pack in my life. Not exactly what the apps reward
It's a backhanded compliment. "He must be a Chad, so this won't work for the average guy"
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My early days on the apps were the average guy's experience, if not worse
I got rejected a lot growing up. No girlfriend until 22, & nothing that lasted until 26
Matches, texting, dates, sex, second dates, a rotation. None of it came naturally. It took a lot of grinding before it started running on autopilot
Since then, well over 100+ first dates
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Looks matter. I'm not going to pretend they don't
But most of what gets you dates is stuff you can learn:
-photos that show the best version of you
-texts that get you from match to meeting up
-a day & a time, without apologising for wanting to see her
None of that needs a jawline
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Almost every guy I've worked with is a normal guy who hadn't had the results he wanted. Some well under average height. Maybe a couple I'd call genuinely good looking
That's why I built my system the way I did. Same lines, same steps, so it doesn't depend on being the best looking guy on the app
If anything, it's built for the average guy
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