If I’m willing to have an uncomfortable conversation with you, it’s because I value having you in my life. I’m trying to fix what’s hurting the relationship, not tear you down or attack you.
You don’t have to become cold to become wise. You can forgive people and still recognize they are not safe for you in this season. Boundaries are not bitterness. They are self respect.
i dont think people realize how beneficial being alone for awhile is. taking time off from relationships, finding out who you are & what you want out of your life, learning to love yourself and growing, learning to be content and happy without needing someone. its crucial.
I won't marry a man who chooses silence after a fight and leaves me alone with overthinking. I won't choose someone who walks away when things get hard instead of staying to fix what was broken. I need a man who listens even when it's uncomfortable, who cares enough to ask if I'm okay, and who makes me feel safe enough to open my heart without fear. I know I deserve a love that stays through storms, not a love that disappears when things get heavy.
i love people who just naturally have manners, morals, self awareness, common sense and consideration for others. the kind who don't need to be told how to be kind, who move through the world without making it everyone else's problem, who think before they speak.
i hate arguing now. i realized that it’s really a turn off for me. i like equal accountability and no pointing fingers and easy solutions. all that other stuff be having my head hurting. like bro forget it lmao you right just leave me alone