This is the sexist mindset that makes many parents treat their daughters harshly. This idea that girls are naturally sweet while boys are naturally badly behaved, so when a girl doesn’t meet those expectations she’s treated like a deviation or abomination instead of a child in need of guidance.
It’s completely normal for little kids who have poor emotional regulation and developing moral reasoning to act out sometimes. It’s their parents’ job to help them understand why their behaviour is wrong and guide them to better choices. Why bring children into the world if you expect them to come with a preinstalled and fully developed sense of right and wrong? It is literally your job to teach them that.
We need fewer people having daughters who expect them to be little angels before they’re even born. It is dehumanising and sets them up for a life of dehumanisation. Daughters are human. They act out too.
The moment Bisola Aiyeola called her daughter, Leyla, on Kraks TV to help answer a question she responded so quickly and Bisola’s reaction was absolutely priceless😂
She couldn’t hide her excitement, saying, My money didn’t waste 🤣👏
A free giver has no business being with a stingy person and overthinking money spent on your partner’s birthday is bottom barrel behaviour.
I also don’t think stingy people can ever change but all the best to Dayo.
Finally let peer pressure win and read this. Tomisin doesn’t realize there’s a problem so she would NEVER change. That’s a deeply selfish woman. If they ever get married, it’ll get worse. Goodluck to Dayo in advance. He’ll need lots of it.
My problem with stingy people is that they still collect things from other people. If you’re going to be stingy at least be self-sufficient. Also, Dayo should run.
If Dayo was as stingy as her during her rough patch, I wonder if their relationship would’ve progressed this far.
How can you be asking for every penny back from a loved one, let alone someone who held you down with monthly allowance?
Disgusting person.
Some people cannot love you right. They just can’t do it the way a fish will be unable to fly like a bird. They may deeply love you, but they are so flawed that that love will only destroy you slowly until you become a much worse version of yourself.
Dayo, listen to me. If you can read this, please dust your leather slippers and start running away. Run anywhere you can run to. Don't look back. Just be running. You have started seeing signs. Wonders will show up soon after. RUN oooo.
They need to break up.
They don’t complement/balance each other regarding money.
They OPPOSE each other.
That’s a fundamental point of incompatibility, and the mutual resentment will be epic.
And Tomisin is not stingy. She’s SELFISH.