Men are not "intimidated" by your degree, your corporate job, your tax bracket, or your fierce independence. They genuinely do not care about your resume. What modern women call "intimidation" is actually just a man walking away because your combative energy, constant need to argue, and refusal to yield is completely exhausting. You aren't intimidating; you are just insufferable to come home to.
@kenzietuff One can have a high libido and also have self control. The implicit understanding men are faced with that the self control won't be exercised is the reason we are declining to be involved and we aren't shitty people for wanting to be the only one in a marriage. Thats the point 🤦♂️
One day, you'll meet a girl who tells you how her ex cheated on her, how he broke her heart, how she can't trust anyone anymore.
she'll sound wounded, soft, sincere, and you'll feel sorry for her
you'll want to prove that you're different, that not all men leave or lie
it's advisable to run away from that type of person.
you're the one that'll suffer the consequences of her Ex doings
@jess_ann_pin The unfortunate fact is that most men will never know what that feels like thru no fault of their own. If they don't know any other way and they believe what their eyes tell them, how are they ever supposed to learn any different. They die with the assumption: "For others not me"
@Chizitere_xyz We did this purposefully and willingly. Accusations of motivations to only power, only begot power. Was never the accusation, it was always the intention. Men are now simply declining to play the game anymore. If being unreasonable, you get nothing from us.
@Chizitere_xyz We didn't teach men how to be articulate so when cancel culture came for us, we folded. The same men, as a product of participation trophies and helicopter parenting, didn't know how to respectfully stand up for himself when women did the same back about their height.
@TheXMatriarch Is there a way men can frame the conversation that doesn't end in shit throwing? Seems that the conversation will need to be started by women but from a place of pure humility. Until then, trust and balance won't be restored.
@chaseharris98 All it would take is an attitude of 'hey...yea, this sucks, our bad. Lets figure it out' but it would take them snapping out of it first