things I've learned don't mean anything:
-sleeping together
-meeting their family
-no protection
-talking about the future
- calling for hours
-"I love you"
asking you to be my girlfriend doesn’t mean i’m your boyfriend. you’re the one who’s my girlfriend. if you want me to be your boyfriend, you have to ask me too.
Do you know the absolute sickest dynamic in modern dating?
It is the illusion of endless options.
Nobody is actually building anything solid anymore because everybody secretly has a "roster" in their DMs.
The moment a relationship hits a normal, human roadblock, an argument, a financial dip, a slight misunderstanding, instead of communicating and fixing it, they just pick up their phone and reply to someone else's Instagram story.
We have become a generation of window shoppers. People will confidently throw away a 90% genuine connection just to go entertain a 10% fantasy, and then cry on the timeline about being lonely.