Pretty Aisha

HEALING CHILDHOOD TRAUMA
|| INNER CHILD WORK
||EMOTIONAL AWARENESS||
You are not broken||You are becoming||
🌱 Growth | 💬 Insights | ✨ Safe space

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

I just finished watching the movie "Frankenstein" and I cried not because of the monster, but because of the message.

Hear me out:
Sometimes, the real monster isn't the creation. It's the creator.

This hit differently, because this is exactly how some parents bring children

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

Silence has a way of making the loudest noise.

You don’t need to explain yourself. Just stay silent, and people will understand immediately.

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

@Dunzifoto 🙌🙌

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

If you’re my friend and I make you angry, please tell me.
I’d rather have an uncomfortable conversation than have you pretend everything is fine while secretly being annoyed with me.

Talk to me. Let’s sort it out.

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

Always keep your partner updated.
Your partner shouldn’t have to guess what’s going on with you or find things out from someone else.

And no, updating your partner isn’t control. It’s consideration, communication, and respect.

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

The person who initiates the game gets to decide the rules.

If you like, keep staying where you're not valued, either friendships, familiship, workship or relationship.

The only way to change the game is to "WALK AWAY".

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

Nothing beats being with someone who thinks about how their choices affect you.

Someone who checks on you without being reminded, remembers the little things you say, and genuinely considers your feelings.

That kind of thoughtfulness is everything.

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

Have you notice you find worms in sweet fruits, but rarely in lemons?

You don’t have to be sweet to everyone. Sometimes, it’s okay to be sour. Because when you’re too sweet, you attract the wrong people, people who take your kindness for weakness

Be kind, but have boundaries.

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

Women are often more likely to get married because they feel ready. Men are often more likely to get married when they meet the person they're ready to commit to.

Readiness matters, but timing and the right partner matter too.

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

Nothing beats being with someone who thinks about how their choices affect you.

Someone who checks on you without being reminded, remembers the little things you say, and genuinely considers your feelings.

That kind of thoughtfulness is everything.

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

Women are often more likely to get married because they feel ready. Men are often more likely to get married when they meet the person they're ready to commit to.

Readiness matters, but timing and the right partner matter too.

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

@Happiluv6 Absolutely 🙌

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

Have you notice you find worms in sweet fruits, but rarely in lemons?

You don’t have to be sweet to everyone. Sometimes, it’s okay to be sour. Because when you’re too sweet, you attract the wrong people, people who take your kindness for weakness

Be kind, but have boundaries.

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

Married women, when last did hubby cook breakfast in bed for you?
😅😂

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

@Emancipated003 Omo, it hurts 🤦

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

Imagine you instil generational trauma on your child and expect the world from them 🤦

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

@Emancipated003 That's correct 💯

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

@Emancipated003 Oh yes 😃

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

Shy people are mostly poor people 🧑‍🦯

Selah 🤞

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

@jon_d_doe I don't use that part to play when it comes to my husband. I take it straight to him once it's ready 😁

[Pretty Aisha @Dblackmuse]

@Emancipated003 I dey alright MuchFrank ☺️ Thank you