@ladyprowess@callmi_koko Don't bother yourself. These people will never take responsibility. Imagine blaming the system when you don't even know a single thing about it.
@Accoid When you tell some of them to have substance and value integrity, they'd call you a pick me and ugly shame you. A country where a woman with BBL has more guts than a woman with 2 masters degrees already shows the morale decay we have in the country.
@Accoid Yu dey talk about women, my gender nko?
Dem no get sense oda dan to dey shout this one buy GLK 100 million, dat one geh money pass this one... And stuffs like that..
And these are the men that are going to marry dose women yu dey talk about ooo..
May God help this generation
@CHARLES_A_III Okay, good. Can we use another example now, like Japan, Singapore, Indonesia, or South Korea, or you're only interested in countries that corroborate your narrative of bad behaviour?
Low IQ people make statements but then never provide proof. Show us proof that a white house staff member called Trump "Donald". Or Obama being called "Barack"
If TOE was addressing an audience in the usa, he would dare not talk to that girl that way.
Americans no send your papa
Your first name is Tony. Tony!
Barrak, Donald. Na your name be that.
@Ay78tgva@jaypio7@General_Somto Simple question: an interview in a western country and a company event in an African country, do those sound the same to you?
Glad to see that this influencer is finally revealing his true colors. This intelligence asset will never see the four walls of Aso Rock. God forbid you put the final nail in the coffin of Nigeria.
“Don’t call me Tony, call me Mr. Elumelu or ‘TOE.’”
When I said Tony Elumelu is a content creator with little or no intellect, his supporters were enraged.
Now, what exactly is the difference between being called “Tony” and “TOE”? Much ado about nothing!
This is what Nigerians used to call “money miss road.”
For 2 years in Paris, I worked with one of the world's leading Neurosurgeons. Everyone including the BSc student interning at the lab called him Marc.
The first day I spoke to Funso Doherty - i asked, "how would you like to be addressed?"
He said: "F.D is fine".
Wisdom demands.
Marc is French, Funso is Nigerian. Tony Elumelu is Nigerian.
Our cultural designs are widely apart - widely apart to the extent that, in a lot of family households, siblings don't call older siblings by name.
Now, it is a different case when you're speaking about people in third person. Sometimes it's just easier to use the first name in that conversation and keep it moving, like we do on social media all the time. Context matters and wisdom demands.
Another extra nuance I'll add is:
Wisdom also demands to pay attention to our people address each other around, especially if you're new in that environment. I'll give you another example.
My first year in Italy, I was in Milan. My supervisory head, a globally acknowledged professor, preferred to be called Danielle. That's what we all called her.
The year I moved down South, I noticed that everyone called my supervisory head, "Professor" instead of her first name. Wisdom demands that you pay attention.
It's not hypocrisy if Tony Elumelu responds to "Tony" abroad without problem then corrects his subordinate back home on how he preferred to be addressed. He wasn't even rude. Cultural context matters and in one context, he's the head of the organization. Even abroad, there are a lot of conservative leaders who don't operate on first name basis.
Of course, as the world progresses, we begin to culture mix & local organizations begin to adopt western communication structures - the lines can get blurred because we still have a lot of conservatives.
Again, wisdom demands that - you ask first:
"How would you like to be addressed?"
Did you all remember when Eukaria was introduced on the Honest Bunch podcast? She immediately cautioned the host to introduce her properly. This is the same energy Tony Elumelu showed and he’s very right to have done that.
Thinker in bio but you don't know false equivalency even if it hit you in the face. An interview and a company event are the same thing? You're just a woke simpleton.
You lot won't stop until you destroy the few good things left in this backwards country like courtesy.
Local champion.
Look at him here, crossing his legs like Peter Okoye when he met Dangote, humbly accepting to be called just “Tony” by a foreign interviewer who is young enough to be his daughter.
“I don’t subscribe to that Oyibo thing”
But you will go and receive Oyibo award in Belgium.
The only place they have power is when they are back home.
Local champions.
I STRONGLY believe you guys endorsing the young lady who called Mr. Tony Elumelu as "Tony" are very dishonest with your take. Don't tell us about "corporate environments". Mr. Tony himself has been in many corporate environments and is very right to correct her that way. The proper thing is to call him with his title(s) and let him be the one to tell you to just call him by name.
Y'all be comparing it with white people. Hello? Even amongst the white people, some of them stand by this principle.
You know why I love Mrs Ibukun Awosika? It's because she always speaks with wisdom and grace. Watch one of her clips on matters like this