If my friend needs helping I’m helping idc what it is.. your relationship status doesn’t determine how I show up for you as a friend. It be too many stipulations that prevent yall from being a good friend, I don’t like that about yall.
I view consideration as the highest form of love, because it requires empathy, thinking about another person's experience and allowing that awareness to influence how you show up for them.
I don’t tell nobody what’s going on with me anymore ever since I learned people talk and clown you behind your back like they don’t be having the same sht going on in their lives, idc how close you think you are to people , DO NOT share your business, getting though it on your own is hard at first but it’s a 10/10 in the end .
finding out ur friends talk sht about u is so humbling, like dam* im always speaking highly of you and this what you do behind the realist mfer in your corner back!? That’s why I stopped all that “ that’s my friend, or they wouldn’t do me like that “ because whole time they will be doing you EXACTLY like that !!!