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A Taurus ♉️
if you don't know who you are or where you belong, you end up asking and begging for what is already yours! You can't beg as an heir of God.

[it's dubi @De___realTshego]

@refentsek_ Kulaveka Mali

[Katli @Katli_T]

To all the Cleo Sol fans, do yourself a favour and listen to SAULT, it’s a group led by her comprising various collaborators. Very very nice music! 👌🏾

[it's dubi @De___realTshego]

@tarotbyece I feel so seen. thank you 🥹💕

[Kush @kush_147]

Good people have high levels of empathy, but once that empathy is exhausted, they switch to a state of objective observation. They see you for exactly who you are, without the filter of their love. This is why their anger feels so cold, it is the absence of the warmth you took for granted

[Celia @CeliaKayo]

It's launch day and I'm obsessed with the Violet Collection! Can't help but add a few more prizes for you to take home.

Adding 3 more Xiaomi Sound Play speakers to the giveaway pool! Repost for a chance to win.

[🛸 Laura Faye 🐉 @thelaurafaye]

Eventually the Spiritual path will lead you back to the Material world because the ultimate meaning of being Awake is to create and play in physical reality 🪄

[𝓘𝓒𝓔 ❄︎ @be_like_ice]

Neurodivergent people don't recover from hard days by relaxing. They recover by being completely unreachable for a while.

[Russell Brunson @russellbrunson]

The faster you move, the more paths appear. Momentum is the currency of new opportunities.

[SizweLo @SizweLo]

Serious industrial nations don’t take accountants as seriously as South Africa does.

In industrialising nations, like Vietnam and surrounding states, for instance, the most prestigious roles are found in engineering or industrial management because the economy is physically building things.

Meanwhile, in South Africa, SAICA’s CA(SA) is viewed as the ultimate golden ticket.

But it’s not only in developing/industrialising nations where accountants take a back seat. In the US, Germany and Japan, CEOs are generally product people or engineers, while in South Africa, a massive percentage of JSE-listed CEOs are chartered accountants.

The reason for this is that the South African economy has been deindustrialising for decades, so the existing companies don’t grow by inventing new things or expanding production. They “grow” through the financial engineering of mergers, acquisitions, cost-cutting, and “tax optimisation”.

The consequence of this is that if you compare SA to an employment-dense industrialiser like Vietnam, you find that the latter focuses on vocational excellence. Over there, an accountant is just a back-office functionary who supports the factory. The hero is the plant manager who meets a production quota.

But South Africa, to its detriment, is obsessed with compliance excellence. The factory, if it even exists, is a “risk” to be managed, and the chartered accountant is the high-priest who tells the board if that risk is acceptable.

By taking accountants this seriously, South Africa has perfected the art of measuring value, but has neglected the art of creating real tangible value.

The worship and adoration of the CA(SA) is a symptom of a services-led economy that has skipped the labour-intensive industrialisation phase, and this is primarily why the unemployment epidemic cannot be resolved.

[Dr MuVenda @Ndi_Muvenda_]

Prof. Anele posted another video. She mentioned that she spent 20 years researching and putting together a curriculum for Ekurhuleni University, which was supposed to open years ago. She also spent 11 million from her own funds because she believed the university would change lives. She stated that she studied 82 countries and found that South Africa's high unemployment rate is due to its poor curriculum.

She carried out the research and invited eight top professors from different countries. This university was meant to be different. The youth would have job opportunities while studying, as the goal was to make them as skilled as possible. The structure and curriculum were strong enough to reduce unemployment. The university received approval, and Cyril Ramaphosa even announced it on television.

One of the clauses in the contract was that Prof. Anele should never be involved in any crime or fraud, or she would lose the funding. Then, Standard Bank fraud cause happened. The funding was then taken away from her and the university was never opened.

Yee no! The government doesn’t care about the youth of this country.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

When someone can't regulate their emotions, you become the problem.

Many adults can't self regulate.

Why This Matters:

[it's dubi @De___realTshego]

@daumenxyz You have such a good heart

[Madame Black Swan 🕷🦢 @DrIndyEinstein]

if I wanted to rule and control a population of people I wouldn’t use force. I would just make sure they are emotionally on edge 24/7 so that I can emotionally trigger them into believing in whatever or doing whatever I say. people who are dysregulated are easier to manipulate.

[𝗄𝖺𝗄𝗁𝗈𝗓𝖺 @simphiweyinkoc_]

i don’t want my life to be a constant loop of recovering from something or someone. i don’t want recovery to be the major thing that defines me.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

Be aware of mother-in-laws who’s children are their surrogate spouse. She’ll view any partner as a threat.

[Andy Lee @RealAndyLeeShow]

@Theholisticpsyc Leaving a partner in a constant state of uncertainty isn’t a being in a relationship - it’s subjecting them to a sophisticated humiliation ritual, designed to grind them down.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

Mature love doesn’t create anxiety. It’s direct. It’s clear.

It doesn’t make you miserable, and it doesn’t keep you guessing.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

Reminder that the fawn response (or people pleasing) is common. We shut down for our own safety and get quiet to avoid danger. There’s no shame if you didn’t say anything or didn’t stand up for yourself— your body was trying to protect you.

[it's dubi @De___realTshego]

@NailsbyKDxx Am square shape girly! Wow it makes so much sense, why everytime I make almond shape my nails would break.

[Gf Be WILIN @gfbewilin]

May a lustful and cheap man never think I’m the one