Dean Pearce

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[Dean Pearce @DeanPearce5]

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[Steve Magness @stevemagness]

"Don't Keep Score." Norway's youth sports motto is building winners.

Norway has long dominated the Winter Olympics, but increasingly they’re having success in summer sports. They just made the round of 16 with their defeat of the Ivory Coast. Beyond soccer, they have top triathletes, runners, decathletes, tennis players, and have had global success in handball and beach volleyball. They won 8 medals at the 2024 Summer Olympics, spanning 6 sports. Norway has fewer people than the Houston metropolitan area, yet continues to produce world champions across both winter and summer sports.

And this is their youth sports program:

-If you give trophies, they have to go to all kids.
-No keeping score until they’re 11.
-National championships: prohibited through age 12.
-No posting youth results or standings online.
-Youth sport is local-first with travel being minimized.
-Motto: “Joy of Sport for All.”

They let kids be kids. And it works. In Norway, 93% of kids play some sort of youth sport. In America, that number is 58%, with kids in the US in the lowest income bracket only reaching 38%.

By any metric, Norway’s elite athletes are achieving on a global stage. Yet, if we turn to their youth sports, their programs are the opposite of the US.

Norway doesn’t allow for official score keeping until the age of thirteen. They dissuade early national travel teams in favor of local leagues. You can’t even post the results of youth games online without being fined. And almost sacrilegious in certain American circles, Norway doesn’t allow trophies unless everyone gets one. As Tore Ovrebo, Norway’s director of elite sport, told USA Today writer Dan Wolken, “We think the biggest motivation for the kids to do sports is that they do it with their friends and they have fun while they’re doing it and we want to keep that feeling throughout their whole career.” Their youth sporting model can be summed up with their chosen slogan, “Joy of Sport for All.”

But not keeping score, giving out trophies, not being “win at all costs”...that’s anti-American! How can they be competitive?

Research backs their approach up.

The Fire Has To Come From Within:

If you look at ​research​ on prodigies who eventually become standout adult performers, a deep intrinsic drive is paramount. Researchers found that intrinsically motivated football players were 3.5x more likely to make it to the next level, and athletes in general 2x more likely.

The problem is that early success often pulls young people away from this inner drive. Kids start playing soccer (or violin or chess—this isn’t just about sports) because it is exciting and fun. As they improve, they gain accolades and praise from their parents, coaches, and teachers. They start winning trophies or seeing their names in online commentary. Without even realizing it, their intrinsic drive gets replaced by external validation and a need to please and impress others.

The quickest way to kill that internal motivation? Hype achievements and be a crazy controlling parent or coach.

The best way to create and maintain intrinsic motivation is to let kids dabble, explore, and find something with which their interests and talents align. Then, let them enjoy it without an undue emphasis on success. Praise effort, character, and teamwork, not results. This is easy to talk about but hard to do. Find ways to reward and incentivize the values you want to instill. That means not taking the easy road and talking about who set a new mile best or scored the most points, but instead highlighting who hustled during the fourth quarter, rallied after it seemed like the match was over, or displayed exemplary sportsmanship.
Go Broad over Specialization

Even if the entire point of youth sports was to create future champions (which it’s not), we’d still adopt something similar to the Norwegian model. An ​analysis​ of over 6,000 athletes explored what separates athletes who reached world class and those who came up short.

Those who reached world-class had during their youth:

-More multi-sport than specialized practice
-Started their primary sport later
-Accumulated less overall formal practice
-Initially progressed slower than national class peers

Those who performed well when young, but didn’t progress:

-Started their primary sport earlier
-Specialized, engaging in more practice in one sport
-Made quicker initial progress

Norway doesn’t have 300 plus million people and an NCAA system to funnel talent. They have to develop theirs. And they realize the best way to do that is keep as many people in the system as possible. Sure, soccer tends to start early and not quite have as much sports generalization, but all research points to lots of unorganized play even in soccer.

Why? Because you can’t predict talent development very well! Just go look at the age group record books. It’s easy to fool yourself into thinking early performance equals talent and potential. The kid running a 6-minute mile at 10 looks way better than the one running 6:45. But if the faster one is at track practice 5 days a week and the slower one rolls out of gym class in jeans and runs it off “fitness” from just playing, well I’m betting on the slower one!

When we assess performance early on, we’re not measuring talent, we’re looking at training age and opportunity. And we’re crowning winners based on who started grinding first. Research backs this up, kids born early in the year are 9x more likely to be picked at U16 than late-born kids, an edge that nearly vanishes by adulthood.

America gets away with the insane achievement model because we can burn out 9 kids to get 1 survivor. When we narrow our focus too early, we create fragility. A prospective study of 1,544 high-schoolers found highly specialized athletes had 1.85x the rate of lower-body injury vs. low-specialization peers.

Norway can’t afford that. They take the longer, more sustainable model.

Their football associations entire motto is "as many as possible, as long as possible, as good as possible." This is also reflected in their coaching style, which varies based on sport, but generally takes advantage of a more modern ecological approach.

Instead of the old school football coach dictating and demanding, doing his best job of imitating a drill sergeant, Norway and other Scandanavian countries are at the forefront of using more constraints led approaches. They let the environment do more of the coaching. There’s more of an emphasis on play, exploration,varying the game dynamics with small sided games, and constraints. This isn’t every coach or situation, but many of the European development models are at the forefront of minimizing the over prescribing we see all too much in America.

Rethinking Youth Sports:

The whole point of youth sports should be for kids to learn, develop, have fun, and want to come back and play again next season! The best chance of developing a D1 scholarship athlete is essentially to do the exact opposite of what our current youth sports fiasco promotes. Even the poster child for early specialization, Tiger Woods, ​acknowledged​ it’s not a good thing for parents to push their kids too hard: “Don’t force your kids into sports,” he says. “I never was. To this day, my dad has never asked me to go play golf. I ask him. It’s the child’s desire to play that matters, not the parent’s desire to have the child play. Keep it fun.”

While youth sports in America aren’t going to adopt the Norwegian model anytime soon, we can rebalance the equation. As I outlined in my book, it’s not getting rid of competitiveness, it’s rebalancing the equation to make sure that crazy mom, dad, or coach don’t extinguish the fire that makes great competitors (and sport fun!).

And even though we like to blame that “crazy” parent, it’s often not the root of the problem. The entire system surrounding youth sports is. A 2026 study of 1,229 families found that parents’ over-investment in youth sports was driven by external pressure, especially from club coaches, and not by a delusional belief that their kid was the next pro. In fact, belief in the child’s potential didn’t predict greater spending on youth sports at all. The pressure is manufactured by the system the family is standing in. Change the incentives, and the behavior changes with it.

In research on performance orientation and grades in school, a teaching environment that supported and emphasized mastery , where students focused on the process of learning and comprehension instead of a comparison to others, was also linked to better grades. But it wasn’t the direct relationship that an outcome orientation had. Instead, in one study on college students, a mastery approach was linked to challenge-seeking, which in turn predicted end-of-the-year grades. In another study, mastery goals predicted higher levels of interest and enjoyment. Mastery works on our approach system without activating avoidance. It frees us up to take on a challenge and pursue our interests without getting bogged down by the pressure or judgment that often comes with an obsession with outcomes. The same findings hold true when looking at sport or the workplace. In a large meta-analysis that analyzed the impact of goal setting in sports, process-orientated goals had a large effect on performance. Outcome goals had little to no effect.

These two paths represent a fast versus slow road to success. Both a mastery or outcome focus can lead to better performance, but the latter is akin to taking a shortcut. Obsession over outcomes is the most direct path to improvement, but it comes with some downsides that shift us toward avoidance. The slow path takes a longer, indirect route. It helps improve our performance not by focusing on the results themselves but by supporting the foundation that ultimately leads to better performance. It stokes the fire of enjoyment and interest to sustain our curiosity and work ethic over the long haul. It pushes us toward challenge-seeking so that when we inevitably hit a roadblock, we’ll take it on instead of trying to protect our ego. Both approaches work. One is more sustainable, providing success with less angst. Society has thrown us so far out of balance that we can’t even see the slow route right in front of us.

We can either instill a love of sport in our youth, or we can turn sport into a burden where kids are exhausted, stressed, and scared. We’ve seen this go both ways, and the results couldn’t be more different. One leads to happy, healthy, and better young athletes. The other leads to burnout, family tension, mental health challenges, and quitting. As parents, volunteers, coaches, and community members, let’s all do what we can to minimize the latter and champion the former.

-Steve

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[Dean Pearce @DeanPearce5]

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[Dean Pearce @DeanPearce5]

@AndrewKirbyGolf Andrew, sorry to learn of the passing of your father. 🙏

[7Sport @7Sport]

19.67 OH MY GOODNESS

Gout Gout has just DESTROYED the National Record 🤯

[Footy Xtra HQ @footyxtraHQ]

Your average goal in the 2014 World Cup:

[Tour Pro 🏌️‍♂️ @OfficialTourPro]

Jack Nicklaus on the 15th hole during the final round of the 1975 Masters.

230 yards with a 1 iron.

So good.

[Curiosity @MAstronomers]

This is incredible.

This machine is capable of cleaning up 100 million kg of plastic ocean waste, and as of 2025, it has already collected about 500,000 kg of plastic.

It aims to remove 90% of ocean plastic by 2040.

[Rice @luisfanpag]

A night I will never forget in my life

[Dean Pearce @DeanPearce5]

@AndrewKirbyGolf Agreed.

[Rico @Gooner_Rico]

This pass by martinelli is underated

[Kieran Maguire @KieranMaguire]

Since the Premier League started in 1992 club have lost £4.99 billion between them, and ten clubs are responsible for 90% of the losses.

[Damien Martyn🏏 @damienmartyn]

This post is A BIG thank you to ALL my family, friends and so many other people who have reached out to me!

On the 27th of December 2025 my life was taken out of my hands…when meningitis took over my brain, & unbeknownst to me I was placed into a paralysed coma for 8 days to help me fight this awful disease. And that I did! Fight that is!….

After being given a 50/50 chance of surviving, I came out of the induced coma 8 days later…not able to walk or talk. And yet 4 days after that, with the doctors in disbelief, I walked, I talked and proved to them all why I should be released from hospital to start my recovery.

So happy to be home, to be able to put my feet in the sand on the beach and to start thanking all those people that reached out to me and my family in their unwaivering support.

This experience has reminded me of how fragile life is, how quickly everything can change & how precious time is!

There are so many wonderful people in this world … from paramedics (at Mermaid Waters Ambulance), doctors & nurses (at Gold Coast University Hospital) … to family, friends and people I didn’t even know. I feel like I met all these fantastic people in the past 3 weeks, or they reached out to me through messages of love and support.

I am so grateful to you all.
Thank you! 🙏
Bring on 2026 …I’m back! 💫

[Jason Wilde @jasonjwilde]

The most interesting thing that was said during the #Packers’ locker clean-out day on Monday morning was said by first-team All-Pro defensive end Micah Parsons. ⬇️

[Dean Pearce @DeanPearce5]

@Cricket_TS Another ‘moral’ victory then?? 🤷‍♂️🙃
Keep dreamin… #Ashes2025

[Monday Q Info @acaseofthegolf1]

Truly ridiculous

[Cricketopia @CricketopiaCom]

Ball of the Century

#OnThisDay in 1993, @ShaneWarne's first ball in England and Ashes turned out to be the 'ball of the century'.

Wisden noted that "never, perhaps, has one delivery cast so long a shadow over a game, or a series"

[Mark Bouris @markbouris]

Another factor in the housing supply crisis is the trade shortage.

For years, Aussie parents have funnelled their kids into law, marketing, or business degrees. University has been seen as the only real path to success - but it’s failing us.

We don’t need more lawyers. We need electricians, carpenters, plumbers, and bricklayers. People who build and fix things.

These aren’t fallback careers. They’re the backbone of a working economy.

Without them, the system collapses — costs blow out, quality drops, and nothing gets built.

[Wayne 🇺🇸🇦🇺 @wayne_kag]

AUSTRALIA. Politics aside .... still the greatest country on earth. 😀