Why is it such a highly addictive psychological trigger for you pigs to have someone considerably more well off than you waste your hard earned money as a hobby. I’m literally sat here, bored while my husband is at work, burning through your cash just to watch it hurt, and you can’t stop. Is it just because it fuels your desire to be used, ignored, and financially ruined by someone superior? #housewife/homewrecker
@chyrpe These are men who have no idea what it feels like to be truly beneath a woman's feet. Quite frankly we don't even want them. The choice between a brain dead automaton primate and a devoted slave of a husband is a straight no brainer for me x
@omgitssuki Often they will take this verification video and use it to set up a dopple ganger account that copies your posts and content. It's a sure fire sign of a scammer. Never do it. Stay safe sisters x
I think a lot of these attitudes come from individuals who are either new to the lifestyle or are aping the lifestyle as a persona purely for material gain.
So many "new Dommes" come to the space after watching a Tiktok video or similar and have very little understanding of the dynamics and passions involved and so take on the title of "Dominant" or otherwise as a sort of identity, as if it's a badge of office or choosing their class in a video game.
The reality is that switching is something that happens to many of us within the lifestyle at different critical junctures in our journeys. And truth be told former subs tend to make formidable Dominants. On the flip side there is certainly an extra high in brining a former Dom to heel also.
I think the scene in general is somewhat too predisposed to protocol, which is natural and understandable given the nature of power dynamics within kink, but it leaves us open to missing the actual human stories that lie beneath the protocol x M
Worship really is such an interesting kink in that it implies the truly metaphysical. I think that very language itself can, for the right mind, elevate the intensity of feeling far beyond submission and into an ecstatic state.
When combined with sexuality the results can be borderline transcendental for both parties. It's difficult to speak of an "energy exchange" without sounding hokey or new age, but in this context I think it genuinely does apply and when done right the results are a self perpetuating positive feedback loop.
This link between reverence and sexuality is, I think, found so often in forms of esoteric sexuality such as tantra (in it's true sense) and western practices of sex magick for exactly this reason. These practices fuse the biological/neurological mechanisms with the pyscho-sexual in a way that I think is genuinely hard coded.
I think this is exactly the trigger that a lot of these ancient practices of sexual alchemy stumbled accross and has it seems been rediscovered by a subset of the kink community. Honestly there is an entire thesis here.
Not to mention it's my favourite kink x
@RuinedByLana One of my favourite past times is slowly conditioning a slave to beg for things he'd initially have hated. Chastity, dog food, emptying savings accounts...the moment of break is so satisfying.
Infinitely more so when they come back a week later begging for it again x