If the very first thought that crosses your woman's mind should she ever cheat or think of cheating is "I don't want to hurt him", then you've been doing something wrong which is part of why she had the effrontery to think of riding another man's cock in the first place.
I'd rather gain a thousand pounds than use posturing for cardio. When you gain enough testosterone, come back, and you might be worthy enough to argue with me.
If you're over 28, go for younger women.
Period.
Not because you want to "control" them, but because women your age have already made too many emotional investments.
They've been "finding themselves" since 21. They've had relationships, situationships, 'almosts', and "healing eras."
Now they don't love, they negotiate.
Akแปฅkแป Mama Nkechi na ndแป yard ya ๐. If it were up to women, they'd make sure men have no single standard or criterion for commitment.
And this goes without saying: the lower the expectations a person wants you to hold them to, the more expectations they'll hold you to.
"Moderate muslims"โwhatever that meansโare gaslighting eh? Haha, like clockwork. Christianity is a "soft" religion and that is the reason behind the words of the Idiot in the camera.
Dem no born you well to make a similar video about Muslims or the Islamic Terrorists. Fool.
A US official insulted South Africa and called Ramaphosa names. All South Africans under that post to defended their country and pride.
Donald Trump called Nigeria โa now disgraced countryโ and even a presidential aspirant agreed and echoed it.
Nigeria got the worst of citizens!
Those who participate in celebrity stanship are in the same mental category as Idiots who partake in tribal bigotry.
Burna Boy acts dumb and instead of apologizing, he doubles down, then a fellow dumb nigga whose mouth never leaves his loins replies with "Realest Nigga I know".
@yaygha Had this in my drafts for awhile but I might as well say it now.
The easiest way to know someone that is saying rubbish, doesn't understand what they are saying or is intentionally being dishonest is the use of vagueness or ambiguity.
I'm still hearing of good feminism and bad feminism ๐. You people are either slow or are bitches, male and female inclusive.
If there's a good side to witchcraft in your village you might as well tell us.
"Emotional depth does not mean emotional dumping."
Apparently, women value men who are in touch with their emotions, who possess emotional fluency, because it makes them feel safe in their own impulsive, whimsical, and neurotic nature.
That is, the clamor for emotionally expressive men is an insidious attempt to degender, depersonify, or neuter, and simultaneously generalize what is, in fact, a distinctly feminine inadequacy.
So it's not born of empathy; it's born of insecurity.
That is, a man who weeps in front of his woman is, in that act, supplying her with a chemical relief - dopamine.
Because if he too is crying as she often does, then that confirms she is not, after all, abnormal for being moody or paranoid with her manโwhether because they killed her favourite character in a movie, her ice cream spilled, or her toxic boss called her โthe fat secretary" today.
If he too shows emotional break down, then her own instability becomes human and not hysterical.
This, perhaps, is the real reason women clamor for men to express their emotions: to recruit the men into the self-effacing labor of making women feel less alone in their own emotional volatility.
Because if women want men to be emotionally expressive (emotional depth) and at the same time do not want men to expect a resolution from them (emotional dumping), then women do not truly care about what the man is going through.
They only want to see him in a state that confirms shared similarity in what is typically regarded as a feminine inadequacy.
This, as you said, makes the woman feel a soulful connection with the manโbut it does not change the fact that the gospel for men to be emotionally expressive, from the womenโs camp, is selfish at best and insidious at worst.
Thereโs no gain for the man in it.
Women are only asking for their own reflection. They don't want to heal the men; they want to confirm that their own wounds are normal.
There's no gain for the man in it. In it the man loses twice: first, when he feels; and again when he realises that his feelings were never truly received, only observed.
There's no gain for the man in it - only a hollow performance of intimacy where his pain is the stage and her comfort the applause.