Deborah Arotiowa

Lover of God, Writer, Medical Lab Scientist

[TheLowkeyMummy🤎 @TheLowkeyMummy]

When I said a cheating partner wants you dead. They called me everything but a child of God. How can one man infects you with HIV, Hepatitis B and Syphilis and you have not arrested him for attempted murder?????

[Ginger @Gboye_Rave]

I must sing "Tobechukwu" or "See what the Lord has done" before the year ends.
I don't know how and when but it will happen before the year ends.

[Àshàké(not Ololade)❤️ @Molayoo_]

Feminism doesn’t stop you from taking care of your man.
Feminism doesn’t stop you from collecting penis.
Feminism doesn’t stop you from cooking for a man.
Feminism doesn’t stop you from spending your money on a man.

You people talk about feminism like it’s a cult created to be against men, it isn’t!

[Adéṣẹ̀tọ́ @Illusionist_126]

Your heart is not a state secret. You are meant to declare allegiances. You are meant to have favourites. Write the letter. Miss the train. Stay up until dawn talking. You should be caught red-handed loving something, someone.

[pelumi 💅🏾 @justtpelumi]

“she think she's all that.” on my soul, i am!

[Deborah Arotiowa @Deborah72188058]

@Eregechi12 Say nah feminine energy 😂😂😂😂😂

[co-creator with God. 🥼🩺 @MaryRoseMalomo]

Thank you to the girls who always have extra pads in their purses and to the girls who help us check if we're stained.
Happy Menstrual hygiene day to youuu!

[EA has her PVC @virtuousii]

You can literally just be existing and next thing, your period will come.

[Iyaloja of Fields 🙌🏽 @bisolabadejo]

There is also a conversation we need to have with Christian men.

Because some of you speak about women with an underhanded disdain that is deeply un-Christlike, then hide behind “biblical order” to justify it.

You cannot simply look at every Christian woman who resonates with feminism and dismiss her as rebellious. History has shown women have had reasons to fight. The Church is not entirely innocent in the abuse and silencing of women. We have sometimes weaponized Scripture instead of rightly dividing it.

Some women did not become angry because they hate God. They became angry because people used God against them.

There are women who have been talked down to, ignored, diminished, spiritually manipulated, and emotionally controlled in church spaces while men quoted “submission” at them like a threat.

And when women begin to push back against that, you cannot automatically label them rebellious without enough humility to ask:

“What exactly are they reacting to?”

Because even in Scripture, God did not condemn women who challenged systems.

The daughters of Zelophehad fought.
They contended.
They challenged a structure that disadvantaged them.

And God said:

“The daughters of Zelophehad speak right.” (Numbers 27:7)

Not rebellious.
Not dishonorable.
Not with the spirit of Jezebel…
Right.

Some of you need to realize that being male does not automatically make your interpretation superior.

Statements like:

“Woman was created later, therefore she is lesser,”
“Eve was deceived, therefore women are inferior,”
“Men are naturally superior because Adam came first,”

do not make you sound spiritually mature. They make you sound biblically unintelligent.

Genesis 1 says:

“Male and female created he them.”

God did not create woman as an afterthought. He had both genders in mind from the beginning.

And Genesis 2 is not about superiority.
It is about order.

Order does not mean value.

Christ and the Church have order.
The Father and the Son have order.
Order is not inferiority.

In fact, biblical leadership is not domination.
Christ never used His position to belittle the Church, He died for her.

So how did some Christian men become more arrogant than Christ?

You brandish submission like a weapon.
You speak about masculinity like it is superiority.
You talk about women as though leadership means lordship.

News flash, you are not a biblical male. You are carnally minded and we all know what that means.

To lead in our Kingdom is to serve. Where is your service?!

And if creation order is your argument for superiority, then goats should be greater than men because animals were created before Adam.

The logic collapses immediately.

The truth is many women are angry because they encountered distortion disguised as doctrine.
Male ego preached as theology.
Misogyny defended with proof texts.

And instead of constantly rushing to call women rebellious, maybe Christian men need enough self-awareness to ask:

“Have we represented Christ properly?”

Because many women are not rejecting Christ.
They are reacting to men who looked nothing like Him.

Love and Light… with a sprinkle of Holy Ghost Fire.

[Aridunu || Virtual Assistant @Aridunu_jones]

You wake up 6am in the morning to dress your kids to school, give them lunch money, shout at them to be fast else they will get to school late, tell them not branch anywhere after school but to come to your shop straight so to help you at the market

Midafternoon you are expecting your kids homecoming only to be met with the news of their kidnaps

This is the reality of mothers in Ogbomosho under Tinubu regime

[courtnel @courtnelc]

I’ve said this before but I do think a lot of people may have vaginismus and don’t know it. Another reason you need to see an OBGYN.

[Dura,coco money🎀 @ms0nigghaz]

The only thing that dims my spark is being broke. Not a man. Soon as the money’s right, I’m back like lightning.

[Top Gun🐼 @mukhtar_usman]

Even the quality of livestock we are consuming here is low quality.

Imagine eating the meat of a cow that entered a farm unlawfully and was cursed.

No wonder some of you behave like cursed people.

[OurFaveOnlineDoc 🇬🇧 🇳🇬 @OurFavOnlineDoc]

The young man in this picture was abducted by Nigerian police, tied up and casually shot to death in broad daylight.

Pls lend your voice.
Pls share for the whole world to see.
#EndPoliceBrutalityInNigeria

[CrownprinceCom2 @CrownprinceCom2]

If you can see this repost aggressively

This is the face of the man who executed the suspect in Effurun Delta State.. He must be arrested...

[Haneefah @BelloHanifat]

I am just concluding my NYSC next month. I am a Medical Laboratory Scientist and I would love to work in ISO labs, NGOs, medical research labs, Oil and Gas, biotech firms, or any beautiful opportunity to grow. Plug me to the right opportunities please.☺️

['Denike Danjuma @DeNiike_]

100 people were killed today in Yobe.

A whole 100 people and the country is quiet.

Nigeria is at war.

[Sheni Coker @sheni_coker]

What do you mean Nigerian Air Force ‘mistakenly’ bombed a market in Yobe killing over 100 people, including children.

…and everyone is just moving on like that. My head is spinning walahi.

[Deborah Arotiowa @Deborah72188058]

@MaryRoseMalomo Girlllll, you're on a roll 🤏

[Dede 💗 @msdede_x]

One of my biggest fears is having to settle for a mediocre life just because I was born in Nigeria. I can’t let that happen