@obiMpenaAustine Most people on here don't even try to understand other opinions aside theirs. They are also quick to call someone dumb meanwhile they are actually non progressive in the way they think.
“Communication is key” but no one talks about how scary real communication is. It is not cute texts and long calls. It’s “here’s where you hurt me, here’s what I need, here’s what I’m afraid to say”. It’s swallowing pride, risking rejection, choosing honesty over comfort.
you cannot make sense to a person who only understands things at their own level of perception. no matter how much you explain, argue, or try, save your energy.