i was raped by a friend of 5 years, in my own home, my own bed, he was friends with my friends, when i passed out he got my other friends to leave, he stayed to 'look after me', obviously my friends didn't question it, so don't tell us "if you knew me you'd know i'm not a threat"
Not getting carded when I'm masked up be fucking with me a lil bit bc it's like gotdamn you can just look in my eyes and see that I'm not an overly optimistic 20 yr old? That spark in my eyes ain't even there no more bruh? Life been beating my ass that bad?
if someone's an anxious apologiser, instead of saying "stop saying sorry", it's so much kinder to say "you have nothing to apologise for". it's not commanding. it's comforting.