If you don’t pay BIG bills, I’m talking rent, utilities, car notes, insurance, groceries, and items for your children, rather you have them or not you not having. It’s easy to say you got money when you have no responsibilities and you live off other people.
Society tells women: don't dress like that, don't walk there, don't drink that, don't trust him.
Nobody tells men: don't do that.
Funny how the entire safety plan is built around managing the potential victim instead of the potential threat.