Women are getting way too comfortable being useless.
Can’t cook.
Can’t run a home.
Don’t contribute financially.
Can’t talk without drama.
Bring chaos instead of peace.
So what exactly are you here for?
Some of yall need to realize that yall are USERS. Yall don’t know how to be good friends, good partners, or good family members because you’re always looking for what you can get out of people. Yall take advantage of people’s kindness, love, resources, support, connections, etc.. instead of genuinely showing up for them!
@JeKsT3R Black women have always been allies of white supremacy against black men. Brothas need to wake up and see who there other enemy is besides white supremacy
I used to be on this app fighting every negative post about Black men. Exhausting. Then I realized I was fighting for a cause nobody asked me to defend.
Now? I simply don’t care, lol. Not even a little. If Black men are so hard to love, then don’t date us. Problem solved.
I didn't speak badly about you, I talked about what you did to me. If that makes you look bad, that's between you and your behavior because telling the truth about my experience isn't bitterness. It's clarity, and I'm not responsible for protecting someone's image when they had no problem damaging my peace. Sometimes the truth only sounds harsh because someone benefited from the silence
I’ll always be ahead of the curve cuz I have a genuine reverence for Black Men in general. This isn’t a entire race thing there are just too many Black Women fighting their type in a losing battle because they want the Cinderella story and it was always fiction.
A man without principles & boundaries is weak & the ideal man a lot of these Black Women describe is him because they want to take charge while telling him what he should do. They don’t want leadership they want subservient men & a man not being easy to control bothers them.
A lot of Black women are bitter, hurt, resentful, and jaded because they don’t like their situation and they want the Black Man who THEY want do fix it and accept them without judgement or ridicule. So when it doesn’t happen they turn into the man they hate & their sons suffer.