@redacted_j@meishato The birthdays, the father Days, the reunions, chrimases, and Thanksgivings. She also has to buy the supplies, the presents, the decor, food and such, there are husbands that brag about never doing a load of laundry, they ain't buying all of this let alone preparing it.
@redacted_j@meishato Then you have the hospital visits, where men with the traditional attitude often don't even know the medical needs of the children let alone what doctor he should be looking for, while it's "his" money, who's doing the transaction? Plus the gatherings and parties ---
@simpingboisinc Plus he only went along with it the first time because wilbur wanted to do it. It didn't negatively affect him in any way. The second was because they went after him. He was leaving them alone, they tried to kill him. And technically dream blew it up, techno was just harming ppl.
@sunsetcdiscs The only thing Tom could ever truly help with was being a thing techno could give to dream, which he didn't. while sure in canon they "worked" together techno did most of the work and protected tom from dream while Tom did everything in his power to let dream know where he was
@ExtrosityNT I can't really fight this one, he did hide his intentions of destroying l'manburg, but all he asked was for Tom not to try and stop him. He wasn't saying Tom had to light all the tnt himself techno was staying away from everyone and new l'manburg egged him on first, so revenge
@ExtrosityNT Ah so he hates the fact that techno is getting revenge but never once said sorry for stealing, breaking things, being rude to ppl in general, starting a drug van with wil. He was such a good person before techno, so bad of techno to believe Tom would want revenge like him
@ExtrosityNT Tom broke into techno's house and got caught, rather than techno shooing him away into the wild or just killing him for being a thief, he welcomed him into his home. Tom put himself in front of techno and chose to stay with him for safety ACTIVELY using him as a shield from dream