tags: panic attack, implied trauma, first person, memory loss due to implied trauma, not beta read, can't think of anything else for this, lmk if you need me to add certain tags!
stop i was on reels and there was a british poster and brits use -ise endings and all the comments were genuinely yelling about it being realize not realise even tho its the same word
→ Say the boundary once clearly and let your behavior enforce it. Not once and then a lengthy explanation. Not once and then a negotiation. Once. Then what you do next is the actual boundary.
→ Start with small low-stakes limits to build the muscle. Not the hardest one first.