Trauma doesn't make people stronger. it damages their nervous system. it hijacks their digestive track. it keeps the person in a constant loop of hypervigilance. To tell someone they are stronger because of trauma is to deny what it cost them to survive it.
@uncledoomer I was going thru one of the darkest times ever and somebody told me that even trash can become beautiful . Then compared my broken heart to a porcelain cup getting repaired just like this