so many men hit the gym after a breakup thinking their body is the issue. brother, you have the emotional intelligence and maturity of a door knob. GO TO THERAPY.
@damnidc__ Isn’t the wife supposed to submit to her husband’s leadership and wisdom? So, if HE can’t get his own ass up and to work on time, that’s a decision HE has made as the head of the household, right? Why should his wife be NAGGING him to get up? Not very submissive of her.
i’m real big on communication. if something changed, you could’ve talked to me. if you felt different, you could’ve told me that. i would’ve respected the truth way more than watching your effort change while you acted like everything was normal.
i never want a man to settle for me. Go find your dream woman, and if you can't find her, don't use me to fill the gap. I want mine clingy, passionate, reassuring, unapproachable, God fearing, and locked in on me only.
Me: reading a book waiting for an appointment.
Random man: *laughs* "you must be a liberal"
Me: "oh? Why do you say that?"
Him: "because you're reading in public."
Me: *shakes head* "That's a weird thing to say to a stranger. I'm sorry you can't read".
i don't think people really understand that there is no coming back from certain things. Some damage does not get undone, and once it changes how you see someone, that's it. Not everything deserves a second chance, no matter how sorry they are.
I want to be someone’s safe place, even outside of romance. I want to be the person they think of when they whisper, “Can I tell you something?” I want them to feel comfortable saying, “I tried something new today, and I was nervous, but I wanted you to see it.” I want to earn the words, “I knew I could trust you.” I want to be someone whose hand feels safe to hold, who listens without rushing, who keeps showing up and keeps trying. I know I’ll never get it right every time, but I hope people always know they’re welcome with me. I just want to be a little corner of the world where someone can exhale, be fully themselves, and not feel like they have to brace for anything.
i wanna be in love with someone who is equally as in love with me and i don't want it to just be love. i want us to be bestfriends and to adore and respect each other and to fit together like puzzle pieces, and tbh i have faith i'll find that
The sexiest thing a man can do is learn you. Not just love you, but understand you, know how to show up for you, recognize your silence, remember the little things, and make you feel seen. It's never about grand gestures, it's about being intentional in the ways that matter most.