guyyyyyy, a hill i will die on is that you dictate how people treat you by the things you allow and behaviours you don't punish. i have a reputation for being confrontational and i can live with it, because i must address everything i don't like, IMMEDIATELY it happens
“No matter how isolated you are and how lonely you feel, if you do your work truly and conscientiously, unknown friends will come and seek you.” — Carl Jung