Heated argument erupts as a man insists that taking care of a girlfriend is the responsibility of her family, not her boyfriend, while the lady argues that a man in a relationship should be able to provide for his girlfriend's needs.
The lady asked: "If your girlfriend cheåted on you with another man because he could provide something you couldn't, how would you feel? Would you still go ahead and marry her?"
The man; "The fact that she left her father and went to another man because he could provide for her is exactly why I can't marry her."
Anyone else create elaborate fake scenarios in your head where you’re the main character just to fall asleep? Just realised I’ve been doing this since childhood. Romantic plots, alternate lives, comforting storylines,full production.
Is this a neurodivergent thing or have I just been directing bedtime cinema for 30 years?
I was watching this Kylian Mbappe documentary on the BBC and Arsene Wenger said something that stayed with me.
He said: “(To succeed) you first have to think I belong to this world”.
As simple as those words are, it’s the reason many people fail at anything they do. They don’t see themselves good enough. They don’t see themselves capable. They don’t deem themselves worthy or deserving of the opportunities they have.
He concluded that statement with “(you must think)it’s natural of me to express my talent and make a difference.”
Imagine living everyday like that, going into the world with the full knowledge that you have a place in it, and everything you do to show yourself, and your qualities to the world is natural and you’re expressing yourself to make a difference.
I think that’s powerful.
I always recommend watching, listening to, and reading the stories of elite athletes. There’s always a difference.
It’s talent, it’s strength, it’s some bit of luck, it’s strategy, it’s the environment.
No matter how good you may be, if you don’t have parents or coaches who see that talent early, and carefully make important decisions for you, you’ll not become as big as your promise foretells.
It’s why I’ll always respect Victor Osimhen and his story. Becoming what he became almost against all odds isn’t what many do, as we can see from the many footballers who never lived up to their levels.
Each time I watch sportsmen, elite sportsmen and the roles coaching and their parents play in what they become, I’m convinced any Nigerian footballer born in Nigeria who makes it big on a global scale is an outlier.
And it’s mentality. Some people can’t hear can’t.
my 2026 agenda:
1. to bite the hands that fed me .. food is necessary
2. to judge a book by its cover .. time is scarce
3. refuse to be my brother’s keeper .. i’m not a kidnapper
4. throw stones in a glass house .. quality control
5. listen just enough to judge you .. because silence is golden
6. count my chickens before they hatch .. proactive planning
7. put all my eggs in one basket .. then guard that basket
8. burn bridges after I cross them .. prevents unwanted visitors
9. cry over spilled milk .. lactose intolerance awareness
10. teach an old dog new tricks .. the old ones are outdated
11. let the cat out of the bag .. transparency is key
12. have my cake and eat it too .. I paid for both
13. wake the sleeping dogs .. they missed the alarm
14. add fuel to the fire .. it’s cold out here
15. miss the forest for the trees .. I came for the wood
16. open a can of worms .. protein is protein
17. look a gift horse in the mouth .. dental inspection is free
18. beat around the bush .. I like the cardio
19. steal thunder from the clouds .. my playlist is better
20. bark up the wrong tree .. the right one was occupied
21. reinvent the wheel .. the old one was square
22. kill two birds with one stone .. efficiency matters
23. cut corners to save shape .. circles are trending
24. sweep dirt under the rug .. new rug, new me
25. play devil’s advocate .. he needed representation
26. rock the boat till it capsizes .. swimming lessons
27. stir the pot after cooking .. flavor distribution
28. jump the gun before the race .. head start program
29. pull the rug from under you .. interior redecorating
⚽ USA SOCCER SCHOLARSHIP TRIALS 2026 ⚽
📅 Saturday, 27 June 2026
📍 Vishi Complex, Douala
🕗 Check-In: 8:00 AM
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⚽ ESSAIS DE BOURSES DE FOOTBALL USA 2026 ⚽
📅 Samedi 27 Juin 2026
📍 Complexe Vishi, Douala
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The Mana suspension bridge🇨🇲📍
Located in Korup National Park. The bridge crosses the Mana River and serves as a primary entrance point into the park's rainforest. It was famously inaugurated by Prince Charles (now King Charles III) during a visit to the rainforest.
There are 4 types of Manchester United fans
- Manchester United fans
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- Manchester United Bruno fans
- Manchester United Messi fans
Never in my lifetime have I seen so much diversity in a single club bro 😭
First African woman Vice-Chair in the ICC’s century-old history. 💃🏽💃🏽
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