a ๐ฉ of mine is that i don't know how to express my feelings on the spot, give me like a week when i've processed everything & i can say exactly how i feel, why i feel like that and how to fix it but expecting me to do that when something just happened is a lot of pressure ๐ญ
I think itโs important to ask โDo you want me to just listen or do you want my input?โ when someone is venting to you. Not everyone is looking for advice. Some people genuinely just want to rant to get things off their chestโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ