Being betrayed over and over again takes a toll. And people don’t talk about it. You have to grieve and let yourself feel the anger or you walk through life unable to fully trust.
May you never again get attached to anyone who isn’t for you. May you find a love who makes you laugh, never lets the flirting phase end and gives you unquestionable loyalty. Someone who adores your childlike playfulness AND your old soul – a love you will never have to heal from
Last week I had 280 unread messages and instead of making me feel bad about it, a friend broke it down to a manageable task and now I have 14. And y’all, having people in your life who can support your ADHD tendencies instead of shaming you is SO IMPORTANT.
having emotionally mature ppl in ur life is so important. ur able to express yourself openly & freely. they don't insult you, they dont give you the silent treatment, they don't become aggressive or manipulative. they listen, they respond-they patiently hold a safe space for you
this box has been sitting in my hallway for *six weeks* and my husband has not asked me what it is, why I haven’t opened it, or if I should ever plan on moving it and this is what it’s like when both partners have ADHD.
there’s something indescribably magical about dancing under flashing lights with the people you love
time moves in slow motion, their soft smile looking back at you while the music washes over you
You deserve a calm love with someone who is good for your mental health and nervous system. Someone who is your safe space, your best friend, and brings peace to your soul during stressful times.