i really want women to understand how powerful it is to quietly get your life together. pay the debt down. save the money. fix your credit. go to therapy. take care of your body. learn the skill. stop announcing every move and let your life eventually explain what you were doing.
"The baby you abOrtEd could've cured cancer."
So could the women you kept in the kitchen, denied education, autonomy, and basic human rights. You didn't care about them either.
The hardest part of any breakup, whether it's romantic or platonic, isn't always losing the person. It's losing the little world you built together. The shared history, the inside jokes, the routines, the unspoken understanding, and the version of life that only existed between the two of you. Grieving that invisible world can hurt just as much, if not more, than losing the relationship itself.
Who is a coward ?? I would define a coward as a person tweeting from the same house , two doors down from me. Next time let’s do our job and bring it to my front door REAL TIME. That’s how it’s done in Rhoa
Men really be telling on themselves for free 😭
We’re literally giving away FREE flowers at my job. Like… no catch. No purchase. Just “hey, take these home to your wife or girlfriend.”
And almost every man who walked in was like: “Nah, she’s good.”
SHE’S GOOD?? 😭 Sir it costs you absolutely nothing to bring home a tiny gesture and make someone smile for 5 minutes.
The flowers were FREE. The romance was FREE. The brownie points were FREE.
At this point I fully support my own decision to stay single because what do you mean the bar is underground and men still bringing shovels.
Things done out of love for the wrong person can never be something you shame the doer for.
She loved through words and actions, some of you are dead inside and can never understand what that is,
Yall should sit this one out.
A lot of men are not being ‘disrespected’ in their relationship, they are just being accurately confronted for the first time in their life.
If every time she names a pattern you hear it as an attack, you will keep turning ordinary feedback into destructive arguments. It is easier to label her as ‘disrespectful’ than is it to admit you have never learned how to be in a relationship where your comfort is not the main priority.
Someone said “ the death of ego will set you free as a woman” and I agree. Ego is the part of you that says: “I must prove I’m enough.”
Freedom is when you realize: “I don’t need to prove anything to be enough.
Emotional freedom is necessary, you become less reactive, less defensive, and more grounded in who you are.
The best thing you can do for yourself a woman is to become unbothered by unnecessary validation.