Be mindful of your privileges.
When you are driving, always give room for pedestrians to cross. If there is a puddle of water, ensure you avoid it where possible or drive so slow you don't make a splash on pedestrians.
I genuinely hope you stop playing it safe.
I hope you ask yourself this more:
"What's the worst that can happen gan sef"
The comfort zone is not your friend. It is the place where everything good goes to die.
Again tell me,
What's the worst that can happen gan sef.
@Ayoelesho You're forgetting that we're in the middle of an olodo uprising. Please do because many people don't know. Whenever we have an opportunity to reduce the Olodo deficit, let's do it
We need to address this.
Some of you just want your man telling you his problem so you can glory in your man sharing his problems with you. But you've have spent the entire relationship showing you are useless and unreliable. Your money is your money and he has to pay for everything. How exactly are you useful when he is going through a rough patch? After rubbing his head and telling him that he will get through it, you would still bill him.
You are not his partner, so stop trying to act like you are. Continue being recalcitrant, it is better than feigning care. The whole point of relationship is that you relate, and the whole point of partnership is that you actually partner. He is carrying you, you are not partnered with him. Partnership comes with responsibility you have refused to carry. I blame him for choosing nonsense, but stop pretending to care. You don't. You just want gist.
Worse, you now have the gist you want and you put him on a timer to fix it or you jump ship. Your partner not telling you shit is because he doesn't trust you to do anything meaningful about it, and probably leave him to paddle the canoe alone. Trust is earned, it is not a gift.
Your partner is not keeping things to himself. He talks to friends that can actually do something, not people looking for gist like you.